muchelleb | 17 Relationship "Tips" I *Wish* I'd Heard Earlier @muchelleb | Uploaded May 2023 | Updated October 2024, 2 hours ago.
This video is a big compilation of thoughts about relationships - some of this applies to romantic relationships, some can apply to friendships and some even working relationships. Absolutely none of this advice applies to relationships where your partner (or friend! or whoever!):
👉 Is extremely possessive/jealous
👉 Is extremely controlling
👉 Is causing you physical harm
👉 Is constantly overly critical of your personality/appearance
👉 Is slowly removing you from your existing relationships (physically or emotionally)
👉 Is spying and monitoring you in controlling ways
👉 Makes nasty "jokes" or uses sarcasm in a hurtful way
👉 Refuses to apologise for apparent poor behaviour
👉 Implies regularly that you are inferior in some way - e.g. not as smart, resourceful or competent as them
TIMELINE
00:00 Intro
0:02 Connection over communication
0:55 Connection is built through little things
1:26 Find red flags that mix with your red flags
2:17 Be careful with internet advice
3:13 Watch how people treat other people
3:42 Communicate boundaries more than once
4:28 Be better
4:45 Own your flaws
5:43 Some people cannot meet your needs
6:07 Relationships should be pretty good
6:40 It takes two
6:59 Relationships look different
7:51 Don't talk about your relationship problems
8:21 Be picky about WHO you speak to problems about
9:20 Relationships aren't work, self-work is
10:04 People can't read your mind
11:14 If you feel crazy they aren't for you
12:54 Stop infantilizing your partner
OTHER VIDEOS TO WATCH
🧠 You're not stuck, you just care too much ⇢ youtube.com/watch?v=887i6R1bVpc
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💫 A QUICK BUT IMPORTANT NOTE...
You *always* know you best. Please take with you from this video what resonates and leave what doesn’t. My thoughts are always changing and evolving, and I might get things wrong. I appreciate you watching this video in a mindful way.
This video is a big compilation of thoughts about relationships - some of this applies to romantic relationships, some can apply to friendships and some even working relationships. Absolutely none of this advice applies to relationships where your partner (or friend! or whoever!):
👉 Is extremely possessive/jealous
👉 Is extremely controlling
👉 Is causing you physical harm
👉 Is constantly overly critical of your personality/appearance
👉 Is slowly removing you from your existing relationships (physically or emotionally)
👉 Is spying and monitoring you in controlling ways
👉 Makes nasty "jokes" or uses sarcasm in a hurtful way
👉 Refuses to apologise for apparent poor behaviour
👉 Implies regularly that you are inferior in some way - e.g. not as smart, resourceful or competent as them
TIMELINE
00:00 Intro
0:02 Connection over communication
0:55 Connection is built through little things
1:26 Find red flags that mix with your red flags
2:17 Be careful with internet advice
3:13 Watch how people treat other people
3:42 Communicate boundaries more than once
4:28 Be better
4:45 Own your flaws
5:43 Some people cannot meet your needs
6:07 Relationships should be pretty good
6:40 It takes two
6:59 Relationships look different
7:51 Don't talk about your relationship problems
8:21 Be picky about WHO you speak to problems about
9:20 Relationships aren't work, self-work is
10:04 People can't read your mind
11:14 If you feel crazy they aren't for you
12:54 Stop infantilizing your partner
OTHER VIDEOS TO WATCH
🧠 You're not stuck, you just care too much ⇢ youtube.com/watch?v=887i6R1bVpc
DESIGN YOUR LIFE
✨ The Intention App - Guided journaling, meditations and reset guides ⇢ theintentionapp.com
TOOLS
☁️ Get 2 Free Months of Artlist (Create better content): bit.ly/artlist-muchelleb
☁️ Get Readwise (My favourite tool for book notes) - readwise.io/muchelleb
CONNECT WITH ME
🧚 Instagram ⇢ instagram.com/muchelleb
🧚 TikTok ⇢ tiktok.com/@muchelleb
🧚 Website ⇢ http://muchelleb.com.au/
🧚 Get Product / Service Support ⇢ https://muchelleb.com.au/get-support
🧚 Collaboration Enquiries ⇢ https://muchelleb.com.au/work-with-me
💫 A QUICK BUT IMPORTANT NOTE...
You *always* know you best. Please take with you from this video what resonates and leave what doesn’t. My thoughts are always changing and evolving, and I might get things wrong. I appreciate you watching this video in a mindful way.
