Uploaded August 2021 | Updated September 2026, 1 hour ago
Ever wondered what a Daddy Dom is?
Do you think a Dominant man is domineering?
Are Dom/Sub couples all about leather, ropes and chains?
Do some of the Dom/Sub quirks remind you of the traditional marriage rules?
If so, you’ll want to hear Sir InQ’s refreshingly honest take on love and what it takes to be a Man, whether you’re into the vanilla or kinky lifestyle!
A Barber & Stylist by trade, Sir InQ has been a lifestyle Dom for over 11 years.
𝗪𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫:
// Dominant vs domineering.
// Suggestion vs manipulation.
// Caring vs selfish commands.
// Being of service to your Sub.
// Lifestyle vs kink.
// Vanilla vs BDSM lifestyles.
// Communication made easy.
// Different types of Subs and how they match certain Doms.
// What a Dom needs from a Sub.
// What a Sub needs from a Dom.
Find Sir InQ: Sirinq.com
Become a podcaster with me: https://www.learnpodcasting.online/
If you want to support this show, I have a ‘AMA’ donor exclusives here: buymeacoffee.com/2oldforthisshit
Ever wondered what a Daddy Dom is?
Do you think a Dominant man is domineering?
Are Dom/Sub couples all about leather, ropes and chains?
Do some of the Dom/Sub quirks remind you of the traditional marriage rules?
If so, you’ll want to hear Sir InQ’s refreshingly honest take on love and what it takes to be a Man, whether you’re into the vanilla or kinky lifestyle!
A Barber & Stylist by trade, Sir InQ has been a lifestyle Dom for over 11 years.
𝗪𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫:
// Dominant vs domineering.
// Suggestion vs manipulation.
// Caring vs selfish commands.
// Being of service to your Sub.
// Lifestyle vs kink.
// Vanilla vs BDSM lifestyles.
// Communication made easy.
// Different types of Subs and how they match certain Doms.
// What a Dom needs from a Sub.
// What a Sub needs from a Dom.
Find Sir InQ: Sirinq.com
Become a podcaster with me: https://www.learnpodcasting.online/
If you want to support this show, I have a ‘AMA’ donor exclusives here: buymeacoffee.com/2oldforthisshit


![#086: When Self-Help Goes Horribly Wrong and How To Prevent It. Feat. Ginny and Jean Brown
What led to the death of 3 individuals seeking to better their life and looking for enlightenment at a James Arthur Ray 5-day event?
Ray was made famous by the movie The Secret and being featured several times on the Oprah Winfrey show.
Together with Kirby Brown’s mother Ginny, a licensed clinical social worker and her sister Jean, we discuss the perfect storm that led to that tragedy, their mission to stop it from ever happening to anyone else and how self-help can be done safely.
We cover:
+ How strong minded people can fall victim to the self-help industry.
+ Tools and dirty tactics used by the self-help industry.
+ What may have contributed to James Ray’s situation.
+ How to not collapse after grief.
+ The legal system is not yet equipped to advocate for the families of [Self-help gone wrong] victims.
+ How to find self-help organisations that have pledged to do no harm and signed [The Promise].
+ What has changed for them in how they perceive life after Kirby’s passing.
*Content note: this episode contains sensitive content, discretion is advised*
Mentioned in this episode: Guru: The Dark Side of Enlightenment podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/guru-the-dark-side-of-enlightenment/id1518839824)
You can find Seek Safely at: https://www.seeksafely.org/
The list of red flags: https://www.seeksafely.org/consumers/
The book https://www.seeksafely.org/this-sweet-life-book/
Social @seeksafely
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If you have been affected and need to talk to someone below are some helplines:
UK:
• https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/crisis-services/helplines-listening-services/
Europe:
• https://www.mhe-sme.org/library/helplines/
USA:
• American Foundation of Suicide Prevention
• Suicide and Depression Awareness for Student
• NAMI Resources on Suicide Prevention
• NAMI Resources on Suicide Risk
• National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1-800-273- 8255
• Crisis Textline - Text HOME to 741741 #086: When Self-Help Goes Horribly Wrong and How To Prevent It. Feat. Ginny and Jean Brown](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/UTgL0U_Rafo/mqdefault.jpg)







