#092: How to stop being codependent? Feat. Mary Joye @angiestudio
#092: How to stop being codependent? Feat. Mary Joye  @angiestudio
Uploaded September 2022 | Updated September 2026, 1 hour ago
From working with one of rock's most influential bands KISS to being a Florida Supreme Court Family Law Mediator, Mary a Licensed mental health counsellor, is here to wake us up from the codependent funk. 


Today we cover:


// What is codependency?


// How Ted Bundy utilised codependency to trap his victims.


// Why healing codependency is a matter of survival.


// Why codependency is a form of self-harm. 


// The narcissist / codependent attraction. 


// How do you know if you’re the narcissist or the codependent party? 


// How codependents & narcissists use people to medicate themselves.


// How to undo a lifetime of codependent habits and learn to set healthy boundaries. 


// Steps to take to avoid relapsing into codependency.


// The difference between compassion and compulsion when setting boundaries as a codependent & the role of the vagus nerve.


// The difference between collaborating and compromising. 


// How to leave a codependent relationship you can’t save.


Find Mary  winterhavencounseling.com


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