Uploaded March 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
A reader sent me an email with some harsh feedback—he says my book is BS because by the time a man picks it up, his marriage is already doomed. He’s frustrated, resentful, and exhausted from trying everything, and he doesn’t believe any change in him will ever fix his wife’s lack of desire. Is he right? Or is he missing something deeper?
In this video, I break down:
🔹 Why some men succeed with The Dead Bedroom Fix—and others don’t
🔹 The harsh truth about ‘fixing’ a broken marriage
🔹 Why some wives NEVER come back (and what that means for you)
🔹 How men fall into the ‘fix her’ trap instead of focusing on themselves
🔹 Why the ‘waiting period’ for change is where most men fail
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A reader sent me an email with some harsh feedback—he says my book is BS because by the time a man picks it up, his marriage is already doomed. He’s frustrated, resentful, and exhausted from trying everything, and he doesn’t believe any change in him will ever fix his wife’s lack of desire. Is he right? Or is he missing something deeper?
In this video, I break down:
🔹 Why some men succeed with The Dead Bedroom Fix—and others don’t
🔹 The harsh truth about ‘fixing’ a broken marriage
🔹 Why some wives NEVER come back (and what that means for you)
🔹 How men fall into the ‘fix her’ trap instead of focusing on themselves
🔹 Why the ‘waiting period’ for change is where most men fail
🚨 Have you ever felt like it’s too late to fix things? Drop a comment below.
🔔 Subscribe for real talk on relationships, masculinity, and escaping dead-end cycles.
Dad Starting Over is part of the Help For Men network! Learn more at helpformen.com
🌐The HFM Brotherhood (private group for men only): helpformen.com/join
FOLLOW ME ON
💥 Facebook facebook.com/dadstartingover
💥 TikTok: tiktok.com/@dad.starting.over
💥 Instagram: instagram.com/dadstartingover
💥 X: twitter.com/dadstartingover
Our Books:
🌐The Dead Bedroom Fix: deadbedroomfix.com
🌐Divorce Panic: divorcepanic.com
🌐Real Talk: helpformen.com/real-talk
Support Our Sponsors!
BetterHelp - Get 10% off your first month! betterhelp.com/helpformen
