Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Kate is the admittedly avoidant partner to Tyler Ely, the anxious partner I had on a previous live stream. Tyler read The Dead Bedroom Fix, backed off, and started working on his own security. It helped. We heard his side. This one is hers.
Three years ago they sat in therapy and talked about ending it. Today she cancels plans so she can be around him.
What she gets into:
Why she stopped believing him even while he was doing everything right
The two books they handed each other, and how both got taken as an insult
Why the divorce conversation came four months AFTER they started working on the marriage
The lie she told herself for fifteen years about why she couldn't have a life of her own
The moment a therapist called her out in a room full of people
Why "divorce stays on the table" is the rule that made them stop staying out of obligation
If you're the anxious one in your house and you're in month three of doing the work with nothing to show for it, this is the conversation to sit through.
Kate and Tyler: Instagram: @deeplyintimate Site: deeplyintimate.com Podcast: Love Alive (Spotify)
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REBUILD – The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man
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REAL TALK – No Bullsh*t Life Advice for Young Men
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RED FLAGS
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Kate is the admittedly avoidant partner to Tyler Ely, the anxious partner I had on a previous live stream. Tyler read The Dead Bedroom Fix, backed off, and started working on his own security. It helped. We heard his side. This one is hers.
Three years ago they sat in therapy and talked about ending it. Today she cancels plans so she can be around him.
What she gets into:
Why she stopped believing him even while he was doing everything right
The two books they handed each other, and how both got taken as an insult
Why the divorce conversation came four months AFTER they started working on the marriage
The lie she told herself for fifteen years about why she couldn't have a life of her own
The moment a therapist called her out in a room full of people
Why "divorce stays on the table" is the rule that made them stop staying out of obligation
If you're the anxious one in your house and you're in month three of doing the work with nothing to show for it, this is the conversation to sit through.
Kate and Tyler: Instagram: @deeplyintimate Site: deeplyintimate.com Podcast: Love Alive (Spotify)
🔴 FREE: Fix Your Dead Bedroom (Instant PDF Download)
go.helpformen.com/tl/545
🔴 FREE COURSE: The Dead Bedroom Fix Course
deadbedroomfixcourse.com
🔴 NEW!: The Dead Bedroom Fix App
studio.com/ralph/deadbedroomfix?c=gNiRtwcj
🔴 TAKE THE QUIZ: What's your REBUILD score?
helpformen.com/insights/rebuild-score
🟢 JOIN THE BROTHERHOOD (Private Community for Men)
helpformen.com/join
🔹 GET MY BOOKS:
The Dead Bedroom Fix (Most Popular)
go.helpformen.com/tl/553
Divorce Panic
divorcepanic.com
REBUILD – The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man
readrebuild.com
REAL TALK – No Bullsh*t Life Advice for Young Men
helpformen.com/books/real-talk
RED FLAGS
helpformen.com/books/red-flags
📩 WANT MY ADVICE ON YOUR SITUATION?
Submit your story here:
deardso.com
Your story may be featured in a future video.
🔹 NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP?
If you want to speak to a licensed therapist, check out:
betterhelp.com/helpformen
DISCLAIMER:
I am not a licensed therapist or physician. My content is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice.
