Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 9 hours ago

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0:00 Crumbly relationships…
1:00 Tom & Sarah
2:17 The bridge analogy
3:01 What to do next…
7:46 (Go Deeper) What we’ll cover
8:26 (1) What needs actually are
10:25 (2) What emotions are & how they relate to needs
12:57 (3) Where needs come from
17:14 🚨CRUCIAL NUANCE
19:00 Summary & outro rizz