Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago

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As we're talking about women empowerment and the importance of self love, we also need to talk about recognizing when boundaries have been crossed and when it's time to make a different choice. In this video essay full of social commentary, I share a tiktok by a mom who had to teach her daughter a lesson that resonated deeply with me about friendship and community.

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0:00 amazing advice from this mom for everyone
4:18 what resonates most with me
6:15 recognizing patterns in pain points
9:07 you are your first friend

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