Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago

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Allison believes you shouldn’t have to tell your partner what needs to be done around the house. David explains, from a psychological perspective, why people often notice completely different things in the same environment.

Is it about effort… or perception?

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