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When we’re flooded, certainty can feel like clarity. The harder practice is noticing when being right has started to matter more than staying connected.
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When we’re flooded, certainty can feel like clarity. The harder practice is noticing when being right has started to matter more than staying connected.
I'm not a clinician, and what I say on this channel should not be taken as medical advice.
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![How to Heal From Grief and Loss | Dr. Mary-Frances OConnor, Being Well
We all understand the emotional impact of grief, but its effects on the body are often overlooked. Today, I’m joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Mary-Frances O’Connor to explore the physiology of grief, and how we can build a meaningful life around loss.
Dr. O’Connor explains how our brains and bodies organize themselves around the people we love, creating “maps” of their presence and relying on them for physical and emotional regulation. We also discuss the health risks associated with bereavement, how to care for the healing body, moving from protest to despair, ambiguous loss, and the difference between grief and prolonged grief.
About our Guest: Dr. Mary-Frances OConnor is a Professor of Clinical Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of Arizona and Director of the Grief, Loss, and Social Stress Laboratory. She is the author of two books on grief: The Grieving Brain and The Grieving Body.
Key Topics:
00:00 Intro
4:42 The map that no longer exists
12:00 Co-regulation: the attachment figure as an external pacemaker
16:35 Physiological effects of grief
24:53 Taking care of yourself after a loss
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34:15 Protest, despair, and meditative practices
45:45 Prolonged grief and getting stuck in restoration
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1:00:01 Re-engaging with the world
1:15:42 Recap
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