Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
In this video, Dr. Frankie Bashan, clinical psychologist, relationship expert, and founder of Little Gay Book, breaks down the psychology behind one of the most common sexual fantasies: threesomes.
Research shows that a large majority of men and women have fantasized about sex with multiple partners. But what makes this fantasy so compelling? And what might it reveal about you or your relationship?
Dr. Frankie explores:
• The desire for novelty in long-term relationships
• The thrill of taboo and rule-breaking
• Same-sex curiosity within mixed-gender couples
• Voyeurism and exhibitionism dynamics
• How threesome fantasies can connect to interest in non-monogamy
This is not about judgment. It is about understanding desire. Fantasies do not automatically mean you want to act on them, but they can give insight into what excites you, what you are curious about, and how to have more honest conversations with your partner.
In this video, Dr. Frankie Bashan, clinical psychologist, relationship expert, and founder of Little Gay Book, breaks down the psychology behind one of the most common sexual fantasies: threesomes.
Research shows that a large majority of men and women have fantasized about sex with multiple partners. But what makes this fantasy so compelling? And what might it reveal about you or your relationship?
Dr. Frankie explores:
• The desire for novelty in long-term relationships
• The thrill of taboo and rule-breaking
• Same-sex curiosity within mixed-gender couples
• Voyeurism and exhibitionism dynamics
• How threesome fantasies can connect to interest in non-monogamy
This is not about judgment. It is about understanding desire. Fantasies do not automatically mean you want to act on them, but they can give insight into what excites you, what you are curious about, and how to have more honest conversations with your partner.
