Uploaded May 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Have you ever looked back at a relationship and thought, “What the hell was that?”
You were loyal. Honest. Steady.
She was chaos.
This happens all the time to autistic men—diagnosed or not. They end up in emotionally volatile relationships with women who may have traits of borderline personality disorder. These women are intense, manipulative, unpredictable… and the autistic man, with his calming and consistent energy, is the perfect target.
In this video, I explain why this dynamic happens, what signs to watch for, and how to protect yourself from getting trapped in a relationship that feels more like emotional warfare than love.
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Have you ever looked back at a relationship and thought, “What the hell was that?”
You were loyal. Honest. Steady.
She was chaos.
This happens all the time to autistic men—diagnosed or not. They end up in emotionally volatile relationships with women who may have traits of borderline personality disorder. These women are intense, manipulative, unpredictable… and the autistic man, with his calming and consistent energy, is the perfect target.
In this video, I explain why this dynamic happens, what signs to watch for, and how to protect yourself from getting trapped in a relationship that feels more like emotional warfare than love.
▶️ Need support? Join the Brotherhood: helpformen.com/join
Dad Starting Over is part of the Help For Men network! Learn more at helpformen.com
FOLLOW ME ON
💥 Facebook facebook.com/dadstartingover
💥 TikTok: tiktok.com/@dad.starting.over
💥 Instagram: instagram.com/dadstartingover
💥 X: twitter.com/dadstartingover
Our Books:
🌐The Dead Bedroom Fix: deadbedroomfix.com
🌐Divorce Panic: divorcepanic.com
🌐Real Talk: helpformen.com/real-talk
Support Our Sponsors!
BetterHelp - Get 10% off your first month! betterhelp.com/helpformen










