Uploaded May 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

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In this Dear DSO episode, we’re diving into a common and surprisingly emotional question:

"If I get a vasectomy, will my wife still want me?"

This one came from Matt — a father of three, married for five years, and totally done having kids… but now he’s worried that the snip might lead to a dead bedroom.

We break down:

The primal fears behind vasectomy anxiety

Whether a man’s fertility is linked to attraction

The truth about women’s desire post-snip

How stress and resentment play a bigger role than biology

Why anxious thoughts can sabotage your relationship

If you’re married, done having kids, and wondering if a vasectomy will ruin your sex life… this one’s for you.

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