Uploaded July 2023 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago

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In this video I share tips and trips on how to stop being a victim. Victim narrative is a mindset and mindsets can change. You got this!

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✧ videos mentioned:
The Only Dating Advice you Will Ever Need to Hear ✨Feminine Dating Secrets✨ youtube.com/watch?v=wcqn1hO7z-Q
Quiet Confidence = REAL Confidence! 10 steps to Become ✨Magnetic✨ youtube.com/watch?v=TKQwrrn_ShI

my book:
Amazon: amzn.to/3386uY6

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email: inquiries@nikaerculj.com

music:
♪ Sunset (Prod. by Lukrembo) youtube.com/watch?v=gv7hcXCnjOw
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timestamps:
00:00 - 02:12 intro
02:12 - 07:05 see it for what it is
07:05 - 10:54 hidden positive benefit
10:54 - 12:02 debunk it
12:02 - 13:25 negative impact
13:25 - 13:56 important realisation
13:56 - 15:57 the fear
15:57 - 20:48 solutions
20:48 - 21:11 bonus prompt
21:11 - 22:31 you got this

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