Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago

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Feeling lost in life and unsure what you actually want? In this video, I’m sharing the Reverse Clarity Method: a simple exercise to help you figure out what you want by first getting clear on what you don’t want. If you’ve been feeling stuck, stagnant, unmotivated, or disconnected from yourself, this will help you find direction, reconnect with your interests, and start building a life that feels more like you✨

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timestamps:
00:00-02:39 the power of opposites
02:39-05:52 reverse clarity method
05:52-06:43 what would be better
06:43-09:29 the power of jealousy
09:29-14:36 choose the negative consequences
14:36-16:02 take inspired action

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