Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Letting someone else lead is not my default setting.
Not even close. 😣
🎧 This week we’re posting NEVER BEFORE SEEN 👀 Ep. 74 THROWBACKS!
👉 Comment “LINK” & we’ll send Ep. 74 🎙️🩷
I’ve spent my whole life taking care of everything & everyone. Making the plan, fixing the problem, and being a 🛠️solution architect🛠️ before anyone else even KNEW there was a problem.
But truthfully you guys... I don’t want to lead. I want to BE LEAD. I want to be held. I want to rest. I want to be loved without needing to perform.
Did I find that? Yeah... wow. I think I did. 🥹🩷
And also... (😉)
✨A man who doesn’t overpower me.
✨A man who doesn’t srhink under my intensity or let me bulldoze him.
✨A man who makes me feel SAFE to be ME... fully, wildly, chaotically while staying steady in who HE is.
Gosh, it’s so worth the wait. 🩷
So many of us who’ve been in survival mode or led our way through hard things, we forget what it feels like to surrender. If you’re waiting on a love like this, or learning how to receive it, I hope you know this...
It’s not about being LESS of you.
🦋 BE FULLY YOU... in the presence of someone steady enough to hold it. 🫶🏻🎧 Ep. 74 is Live now.
What’s your default mode?
💪🏻 I lead
🩷 I receive
😵💫 I try to do both.
Letting someone else lead is not my default setting.
Not even close. 😣
🎧 This week we’re posting NEVER BEFORE SEEN 👀 Ep. 74 THROWBACKS!
👉 Comment “LINK” & we’ll send Ep. 74 🎙️🩷
I’ve spent my whole life taking care of everything & everyone. Making the plan, fixing the problem, and being a 🛠️solution architect🛠️ before anyone else even KNEW there was a problem.
But truthfully you guys... I don’t want to lead. I want to BE LEAD. I want to be held. I want to rest. I want to be loved without needing to perform.
Did I find that? Yeah... wow. I think I did. 🥹🩷
And also... (😉)
✨A man who doesn’t overpower me.
✨A man who doesn’t srhink under my intensity or let me bulldoze him.
✨A man who makes me feel SAFE to be ME... fully, wildly, chaotically while staying steady in who HE is.
Gosh, it’s so worth the wait. 🩷
So many of us who’ve been in survival mode or led our way through hard things, we forget what it feels like to surrender. If you’re waiting on a love like this, or learning how to receive it, I hope you know this...
It’s not about being LESS of you.
🦋 BE FULLY YOU... in the presence of someone steady enough to hold it. 🫶🏻🎧 Ep. 74 is Live now.
What’s your default mode?
💪🏻 I lead
🩷 I receive
😵💫 I try to do both.
