The Separate Self and Spiritual Community @rupertspira
The Separate Self and Spiritual Community  @rupertspira
Uploaded January 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
This question addresses the challenge many face in spiritual groups. How can one participate in a spiritual community without reinforcing the separate self?

Rupert says: ‘By not identifying yourself with any community, with any tradition or with any teacher. I don’t mean that you should leave your community or your teacher. Just don’t identify in your heart. You can keep going in your community, you can keep doing your practices, but in your heart, you must be free.’

‘The ego flourishes in spiritual communities, and the ego flourishes by devoting itself to a teacher. Most of the world’s wars take place between people who disagree with each other’s teachers. When your teacher dies, that is their ultimate gift to you – to let go of that last object of identification.’

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