Uploaded July 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Can discovering lasting peace unexpectedly create tension with the people closest to us? Why do family members or partners sometimes struggle when we stop reacting in familiar ways?
Rupert says: ‘The separate self feeds on conflict because conflict reinforces the feeling of being a separate person. Harmony, peace and love dissolve that sense of separation, so the ego often resists them. The responsibility in any relationship lies with the one who has the greater understanding.’
‘Don’t try to explain non-duality to people who aren't interested. Meet them where they are, speak their language and respond with kindness, humour and understanding. In time, your peace may become more convincing than any explanation you could give.’
*This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at The Vedanta, 21–28 November 2025. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to:
▸ rupertspira.com/events
Timestamps:
0:00 Discovering Inner Peace
1:12 When Relationships Change
2:26 Why the Ego Resists
3:34 Conflict vs Harmony
4:31 Responsibility in Relationships
5:13 Speaking Their Language
6:18 Peace Speaks for Itself
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Rupert holds regular retreats, roughly once per month, either in-person and online. Many in-person retreats can also be attended from the comfort of your home via livestream.
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▸ rupertspira.com/events/retreats-at-home
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▸ rupertspira.com/events
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Rupert's webinars take place on Wednesday evenings, from 4pm UK time. In the first twenty to thirty minutes, Rupert leads a spontaneous meditation. The remaining time is open for attendees to discuss their questions with Rupert.
WEEKLY WEBINAR SCHEDULE
▸ rupertspira.com/events/webinar
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Can discovering lasting peace unexpectedly create tension with the people closest to us? Why do family members or partners sometimes struggle when we stop reacting in familiar ways?
Rupert says: ‘The separate self feeds on conflict because conflict reinforces the feeling of being a separate person. Harmony, peace and love dissolve that sense of separation, so the ego often resists them. The responsibility in any relationship lies with the one who has the greater understanding.’
‘Don’t try to explain non-duality to people who aren't interested. Meet them where they are, speak their language and respond with kindness, humour and understanding. In time, your peace may become more convincing than any explanation you could give.’
*This video is from one of Rupert’s in-person retreats at The Vedanta, 21–28 November 2025. For more information on upcoming retreats (many of which can be attended online via livestream) go to:
▸ rupertspira.com/events
Timestamps:
0:00 Discovering Inner Peace
1:12 When Relationships Change
2:26 Why the Ego Resists
3:34 Conflict vs Harmony
4:31 Responsibility in Relationships
5:13 Speaking Their Language
6:18 Peace Speaks for Itself
––
LUMINOUS MEDITATION APP
Free daily meditations for effortless peace. An invitation to pause and rediscover the stillness of being. Available on Apple store and Android here:
▸ luminous.rupertspira.com
ACCESS FULL VIDEO ARCHIVE
You can watch or listen to 1000s of hours of teachings, guided meditations and answers in Rupert's full video archive here:
▸ rupertspira.com/subscriptions
––
RETREATS (Weekend & 7-day)
Rupert holds regular retreats, roughly once per month, either in-person and online. Many in-person retreats can also be attended from the comfort of your home via livestream.
ONLINE RETREAT SCHEDULE
▸ rupertspira.com/events/retreats-at-home
IN-PERSON RETREATS SCHEDULE (UK, EU and US) (Also Available to Join Online via Live Stream)
▸ rupertspira.com/events
––
WEEKLY WEBINARS (2 hours)
Rupert's webinars take place on Wednesday evenings, from 4pm UK time. In the first twenty to thirty minutes, Rupert leads a spontaneous meditation. The remaining time is open for attendees to discuss their questions with Rupert.
WEEKLY WEBINAR SCHEDULE
▸ rupertspira.com/events/webinar
––
BROWSE RUPERT’S BOOKS
▸ rupertspira.com/publications
––
LISTEN TO RUPERT’S PODCAST
▸ iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rupert-spira-podcast
▸ Libsyn: rupertspira.libsyn.com
▸ Spotify: open.spotify.com/artist/6z1GNgC1js30g9RLSfBB4M
––
SOCIAL MEDIA CHANNELS
▸ Website: rupertspira.com
▸ Instagram: instagram.com/rupertspira
▸ Facebook: facebook.com/rupertspira
▸ Twitter: twitter.com/rupertspira
▸ Tiktok: tiktok.com/@rupertspira
––
FOLLOW RUPERT ON MEDIUM
medium.com/@rupert_spira
––
SUBSCRIBE TO RUPERT’S YOUTUBE FOR NEW VIDEO ALERTS
▸ youtube.com/user/rupertspira?sub_confirmation=1
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#rupertspira #nonduality #happiness #natureofreality #consciousness #awareness #meditation #guidedmeditation
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