Uploaded November 2024 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
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How can we befriend and reintegrate the exiles within us?
How can we learn to be less self-critical — and less prone to self-indulgent distractions — when dealing with the conflicting parts of our own psyche?
How can we create a safe and open space for inner dialogue and collaboration between these different parts of ourselves, leading to greater self-understanding, emotional resilience, and wholeness?
In this episode, Corey deVos and Dr. Keith Witt discuss Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, an approach developed by Richard Schwartz in the 1980s that recognizes the multiplicity of the human psyche. IFS works with the different parts of the personality to promote psychological health, wholeness, and ongoing development.
Dr. Witt provides an overview of IFS, explaining that it sees people as having four types of interior figures: the Wise Self, exiles (parts we want to get rid of), critics (managers that criticize the exiles), and firefighters (managers that distract from the pain of exiles). The goal of IFS is to strengthen the wise self and create an integrating process where the various parts of ourselves can come into alignment.
The discussion delves into the history of IFS, with Dr. Witt sharing the story of Richard Schwartz’s development of the approach amidst the landscape of psychotherapy in the 1960s and 70s. He also shares his own journey of initially dismissing IFS but later coming to appreciate its unique and powerful aspects after seeing Schwartz’s work.
Dr. Witt outlines a typical IFS therapeutic sequence, which involves identifying an issue or distress, connecting with the exile that is not being adequately attended to, and then working with the critic and firefighter to organize these parts in a way that strengthens the wise self. He highlights three key features of IFS: the subtext of identifying and strengthening the wise self, never allowing an adversarial relationship with any part, and engaging in both horizontal and vertical growth.
The conversation touches on how an integral understanding enriches the IFS approach and how IFS can be integrated with other therapeutic approaches and wisdom traditions. Corey and Dr. Witt also share some of their own experiences working with their inner critics, exiles, and wise selves.
Watch the full episode here:
integrallife.com/the-many-within-understanding-ifs-and-self-integration
How can we befriend and reintegrate the exiles within us?
How can we learn to be less self-critical — and less prone to self-indulgent distractions — when dealing with the conflicting parts of our own psyche?
How can we create a safe and open space for inner dialogue and collaboration between these different parts of ourselves, leading to greater self-understanding, emotional resilience, and wholeness?
In this episode, Corey deVos and Dr. Keith Witt discuss Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, an approach developed by Richard Schwartz in the 1980s that recognizes the multiplicity of the human psyche. IFS works with the different parts of the personality to promote psychological health, wholeness, and ongoing development.
Dr. Witt provides an overview of IFS, explaining that it sees people as having four types of interior figures: the Wise Self, exiles (parts we want to get rid of), critics (managers that criticize the exiles), and firefighters (managers that distract from the pain of exiles). The goal of IFS is to strengthen the wise self and create an integrating process where the various parts of ourselves can come into alignment.
The discussion delves into the history of IFS, with Dr. Witt sharing the story of Richard Schwartz’s development of the approach amidst the landscape of psychotherapy in the 1960s and 70s. He also shares his own journey of initially dismissing IFS but later coming to appreciate its unique and powerful aspects after seeing Schwartz’s work.
Dr. Witt outlines a typical IFS therapeutic sequence, which involves identifying an issue or distress, connecting with the exile that is not being adequately attended to, and then working with the critic and firefighter to organize these parts in a way that strengthens the wise self. He highlights three key features of IFS: the subtext of identifying and strengthening the wise self, never allowing an adversarial relationship with any part, and engaging in both horizontal and vertical growth.
The conversation touches on how an integral understanding enriches the IFS approach and how IFS can be integrated with other therapeutic approaches and wisdom traditions. Corey and Dr. Witt also share some of their own experiences working with their inner critics, exiles, and wise selves.
