Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Ben and his wife had three children when they were in their early 20s — a decision he says was strongly influenced by their Christian faith.
When it comes to his parenting approach, Ben says he aims for a balance between high love and high discipline.
"A lot of affirmation and love and warmth, but also those firm boundaries that actually help them have guardrails — within which they can flourish," he told Insight.
If you're in Australia, watch the full episode on SBS On Demand.
And if you're outside Australia, watch Insight episode Modern Parenting on our YouTube channel.
Insight airs Tuesdays at 8:30pm on SBS: http://www.sbs.com.au/news/insight
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Insight, hosted by Kumi Taguchi, is Australia's leading forum for powerful first-person stories offering a unique perspective on the way we live.
Insight first went to air in 1995 and has since been a mainstay of SBS current affairs programming. The team doesn't shy away from taboo topics: from polygamy, to brain implants, to the secrets revealed on the deathbed.
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Ben and his wife had three children when they were in their early 20s — a decision he says was strongly influenced by their Christian faith.
When it comes to his parenting approach, Ben says he aims for a balance between high love and high discipline.
"A lot of affirmation and love and warmth, but also those firm boundaries that actually help them have guardrails — within which they can flourish," he told Insight.
If you're in Australia, watch the full episode on SBS On Demand.
And if you're outside Australia, watch Insight episode Modern Parenting on our YouTube channel.
Insight airs Tuesdays at 8:30pm on SBS: http://www.sbs.com.au/news/insight
SUBSCRIBE: bit.ly/3txZoUN
Insight, hosted by Kumi Taguchi, is Australia's leading forum for powerful first-person stories offering a unique perspective on the way we live.
Insight first went to air in 1995 and has since been a mainstay of SBS current affairs programming. The team doesn't shy away from taboo topics: from polygamy, to brain implants, to the secrets revealed on the deathbed.
Do you want to be part of the discussion and join an Insight record? Insight aims to include a range of backgrounds, ages, and perspectives in our studio audience. If you want to be involved, register here: bit.ly/3vQlO7T
Visit our website: https://www.sbs.com.au/news/insight/
Catch up on full episodes: https://www.sbs.com.au/ondemand/program/insight
Like us on Facebook: facebook.com/InsightSBS
Follow us on Instagram: instagram.com/insightsbs
Network Terms & Conditions: https://www.sbs.com.au/terms
Privacy Policy: https://www.sbs.com.au/privacy
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