I met my soulmate at 14. Then I lost her | SBS Insight @SBSInsight
I met my soulmate at 14. Then I lost her | SBS Insight  @SBSInsight
Uploaded December 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Is there such a thing as a soulmate and what are the pluses and perils of pursuing the 'one'? This Insight episode is Soulmates and originally aired in 2023.

00:00 From roommates, to friends with benefits, to soulmates
05:04 I knew she was ‘the one’ when I was 14
07:33 What are soulmates?
12:00 I found my soulmate in a lesbian club
15:55 The science of ‘love at first sight’
22:04 ‘Twin flames’ and obsession when dating
25:54 Dating at work and relationship red flags
32:09 I take a vision board of my dream man with me when I travel
35:28 Can dating standards be too high?
38:02 Can arranged marriages work?
39:48 Losing my childhood sweetheart

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