Uploaded September 2024 | Updated September 2026, 18 minutes ago
#shorts Tired of feeling pressured by financial advisers to buy products? đ In this episode, Jeremy Schneider from Personal Finance Club shares the benefits of advice-only financial advisers, offering unbiased, expert advice for your financial questions. đĄ
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open.spotify.com/episode/1tVS0sZdZAdtyRuKwkwb3R?si=be418cee7f86439a
podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/too-old-for-this-sh-t/id1474479035?i=1000669637521
angie-s.com/podcast-page
youtu.be/yHHoraYIMxg?si=YJJjYvIrHw1f3oAw
#FinancialAdvice #PodcastTeaser #MoneyMatters #UnbiasedAdvice #TooOldForThisShitPodcast #TO4TSPOD #TO4TS #Jeremy Schneider #NewPodcastEpisode
#shorts Tired of feeling pressured by financial advisers to buy products? đ In this episode, Jeremy Schneider from Personal Finance Club shares the benefits of advice-only financial advisers, offering unbiased, expert advice for your financial questions. đĄ
Itâs available everywhere. Here are a few links đď¸
open.spotify.com/episode/1tVS0sZdZAdtyRuKwkwb3R?si=be418cee7f86439a
podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/too-old-for-this-sh-t/id1474479035?i=1000669637521
angie-s.com/podcast-page
youtu.be/yHHoraYIMxg?si=YJJjYvIrHw1f3oAw
#FinancialAdvice #PodcastTeaser #MoneyMatters #UnbiasedAdvice #TooOldForThisShitPodcast #TO4TSPOD #TO4TS #Jeremy Schneider #NewPodcastEpisode



![[Revisit Ep 86] When Self-Help Goes Horribly Wrong and How To Prevent It. Feat. Ginny and Jean Brown
While TO4TS is on a break, check out this revisit of a past favourite episode (#086 When Self-Help Goes Horribly Wrong and How To Prevent It). I will return early 2023 with Season 4!!!
What led to the death of 3 individuals seeking to better their life and looking for enlightenment at a James Arthur Ray 5-day event?
Ray was made famous by the movie The Secret and being featured several times on the Oprah Winfrey show.
Together with Kirby Brownâs mother Ginny, a licensed clinical social worker and her sister Jean, we discuss the perfect storm that led to that tragedy, their mission to stop it from ever happening to anyone else and how self-help can be done safely.Â
We cover:
+ How strong minded people can fall victim to the self-help industry.
+ Tools and dirty tactics used by the self-help industry.
+ What may have contributed to James Rayâs situation.Â
+ How to not collapse after grief.Â
+ The legal system is not yet equipped to advocate for the families of [Self-help gone wrong] victims.
+ How to find self-help organisations that have pledged to do no harm and signed [The Promise].
+ What has changed for them in how they perceive life after Kirbyâs passing.Â
*Content note: this episode contains sensitive content, discretion is advised*
You can find Seek Safely at: https://www.seeksafely.org/Â Â
The list of red flags: https://www.seeksafely.org/consumers/Â
The book https://www.seeksafely.org/this-sweet-life-book/Â
Social @seeksafely Â
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Mentioned in this episode: Guru: The Dark Side of Enlightenment podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/guru-the-dark-side-of-enlightenment/id1518839824)
If you have been affected and need to talk to someone below are some helplines:
UK: https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/crisis-services/helplines-listening-services/Â
Europe: https://www.mhe-sme.org/library/helplines/Â
USA:Â
American Foundation of Suicide Prevention
Suicide and Depression Awareness for Student
NAMI Resources on Suicide Prevention
NAMI Resources on Suicide Risk
National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1-800-273- 8255
Crisis Textline - Text HOME to 741741 [Revisit Ep 86] When Self-Help Goes Horribly Wrong and How To Prevent It. Feat. Ginny and Jean Brown](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/jtxldhj6TWo/mqdefault.jpg)




![#117: Rebuilding trust after infidelity with Dr Shawn Haywood
Can love, commitment, and vulnerability turn a broken relationship into an even healthier one? Working through infidelity can be one of the most challenging trials for couples. In this episode, we tackle the intricate process of helping couples recover and rebuild trust after an affair. We discuss the importance of having one dedicated therapist guide the entire healing journey, rather than multiple individual therapists, and how this approach leads to more successful and quicker recoveries.
Dr. Shawn Haywood, returning guest, shares valuable insights into the common reasons for infidelity, the importance of vulnerability, and how emotional safety creates a foundation for rebuilding relationships. We dive into the critical 30-60 day period after discovery, methods to handle the initial shock, and strategies for effectively communicating feelings of hurt and disappointment.
We emphasize that healing requires addressing individual traumas and fostering genuine connections. Shawn provides actionable steps and the four-step model to handle any conflict with love and without anger.
Download this episodeâs takeaways here: https://forms.angie-s.com/ep117
⨠Donât be a stranger:
⢠đď¸ Thinking about starting your own podcast? My membership at (https://getyourpodcastdone.com) getyourpodcastdone.com (http://getyourpodcastdone.com) will help you actually do the thing - without the overwhelm.
⢠đŹ Want the good stuff I donât share anywhere else? Hop on my email list (https://forms.angie-s.com/sign-up)
⢠â¤ď¸ If this episode made you think, laugh, or roll your eyes (in a good way), you can support the show here (https://to4ts.captivate.fm/support) . It helps keep the mics on.
⢠The podcast host I swear by: Captivate (https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=angiesorensen)
⢠đ Old school and want to just say hi? Contact me here (https://www.angie-s.com/contact)
*Affiliate link alert: I get a tiny kickback if you sign up. Think of it as buying me a fancy coffee. âď¸
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Find Shawn: www.reimaginelove.com/ (http://www.reimaginelove.com/) Â
Timestamped overview:Â
[00:02:58] Introducing guest Shawn Haywood and discussing her work on infidelityÂ
[00:06:19] The shortage of effective programs for infidelity and Shawns approachÂ
[00:10:47] Infidelitys Complexity
[00:16:42] Infidelitys Root Causes
[00:25:58] Methods to identify genuine remorse and willingness to rebuild the relationshipÂ
[00:28:34] Marriage Challenges and Modern Discontent
[00:34:59] The disclosure of the affairÂ
[00:46:18] Strategies for rebuilding trust and moving forward in the relationshipÂ
[00:53:15] Avoiding disconnection and maintaining a healthy relationshipÂ
[01:06:06] Practical communication techniques to resolve conflictÂ
[01:09:06]Â Conflict are like Jenga Blocks
[01:14:45] Identifying Self-Disempowerment Patterns
[01:18:28] Final thoughts on the importance of addressing personal issues and growthÂ
[01:26:44] Wrapping up and providing information on where to find more resources and help #117: Rebuilding trust after infidelity with Dr Shawn Haywood](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/lJGS2qyjzUg/mqdefault.jpg)

