The Antidote to Self-Help @RahulSam

Uploaded November 2025 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago

Peter Rollins is the greatest demotivational speaker in the business. To say his thinking has had a profound impact on me is the understatement of the year. These 10 minutes from a discussion we had over two years ago capture, for me, Peter at his best.

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$The Antidote to Self-Help Peter Rollins is the greatest demotivational speaker in the business. To say his thinking has had a profound impact on me is the understatement of the year. These 10 minutes from a discussion we had over two years ago capture, for me, Peter at his best. Previous appearances on the podcast: https://youtu.be/_uSff-Mlhzc?si=p9p-WrCxsjTXM0qn https://youtu.be/b-TnZFslmR8?si=ebhZB4TcwKTg7uRV https://youtu.be/01GPP197OKU?si=p0815WW15n03Iun5 Please consider financially supporting my work (ONLY if you have the means). 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