Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Every tabletop wargamer knows those unwritten rules — the unspoken expectations that shape how we play. But are they the secret ingredient that makes miniature wargaming so much fun, or could they be creating hidden barriers that push new players away? In this video I revisit the five “rules of wargaming etiquette” I first talked about years ago, and this time I ask a tougher question: are these rules really helping the hobby grow, or do they risk making the games table feel like a closed club?
From courtesy and fairness to honesty and conviviality, I explore the pros and cons of each, and ask whether following these unwritten guidelines makes the hobby more welcoming or more intimidating. Along the way I share my thoughts as a social historical wargamer, reflect on how different groups approach etiquette, and invite you to share your experiences.
If you’re into tabletop wargaming, miniature painting, or simply enjoy discussions about the hobby we all love, this video is for you.
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Every tabletop wargamer knows those unwritten rules — the unspoken expectations that shape how we play. But are they the secret ingredient that makes miniature wargaming so much fun, or could they be creating hidden barriers that push new players away? In this video I revisit the five “rules of wargaming etiquette” I first talked about years ago, and this time I ask a tougher question: are these rules really helping the hobby grow, or do they risk making the games table feel like a closed club?
From courtesy and fairness to honesty and conviviality, I explore the pros and cons of each, and ask whether following these unwritten guidelines makes the hobby more welcoming or more intimidating. Along the way I share my thoughts as a social historical wargamer, reflect on how different groups approach etiquette, and invite you to share your experiences.
If you’re into tabletop wargaming, miniature painting, or simply enjoy discussions about the hobby we all love, this video is for you.
Join this channel to get access to perks:
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