Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago
Meet Staci Reay
Survivor. Advocate
Staci was abused between 3-17 years of age by her father, who she later discovered was NOT her biological father. Her brothers were also abused by this man. Her twin brother became an alcoholic and died at age of 40. Staci herself, attempted suicide twice as a teenager, trying to escape the ongoing trauma of the abuse. Inspirational and brave, Staci’s story is well worth watching.
HELP
NZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334
USA RAINN rainn.org Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse
UK NAPAK napac.org.uk Supporting recovery from childhood abuse
AUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.
OTHER
To get some more resources from us, please go to: handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.
We are on all social media platforms:
Facebook: facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack
Instagram: instagram.com/handingtheshameback
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back
X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack
TikTok: tiktok.com/@handingshameback
Buzzsprout: handingtheshameback.buzzsprout.com
#HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign #SafeAdult
Meet Staci Reay
Survivor. Advocate
Staci was abused between 3-17 years of age by her father, who she later discovered was NOT her biological father. Her brothers were also abused by this man. Her twin brother became an alcoholic and died at age of 40. Staci herself, attempted suicide twice as a teenager, trying to escape the ongoing trauma of the abuse. Inspirational and brave, Staci’s story is well worth watching.
HELP
NZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334
USA RAINN rainn.org Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse
UK NAPAK napac.org.uk Supporting recovery from childhood abuse
AUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.
OTHER
To get some more resources from us, please go to: handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.
We are on all social media platforms:
Facebook: facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack
Instagram: instagram.com/handingtheshameback
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back
X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack
TikTok: tiktok.com/@handingshameback
Buzzsprout: handingtheshameback.buzzsprout.com
#HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign #SafeAdult
