Uploaded November 2024 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago
Meet Raymond Lum
Survivor and Film Producer
As a young boy, he was sexually abused by their female live in nanny for years. When he eventually told his father the response was ‘Look out for your brother’.
To reach Raymond go to: facebook.com/sting16 or instagram.com/raymondtlum
HELP
NZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334
USA RAINN rainn.org Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse
UK NAPAK napac.org.uk Supporting recovery from childhood abuse
AUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.
OTHER
To get some more resources from us, please go to: handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.
We are on all social media platforms:
Facebook: facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack
Instagram: instagram.com/handingtheshameback
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back
X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack
TikTok: tiktok.com/@handingshameback
Buzzsprout: handingtheshameback.buzzsprout.com
#HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign
Meet Raymond Lum
Survivor and Film Producer
As a young boy, he was sexually abused by their female live in nanny for years. When he eventually told his father the response was ‘Look out for your brother’.
To reach Raymond go to: facebook.com/sting16 or instagram.com/raymondtlum
HELP
NZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334
USA RAINN rainn.org Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse
UK NAPAK napac.org.uk Supporting recovery from childhood abuse
AUSTRALIA Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/ Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.
OTHER
To get some more resources from us, please go to: handingtheshameback.org/, we offer books, coaching and tips for survivors and for those supporting them.
We are on all social media platforms:
Facebook: facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack
Instagram: instagram.com/handingtheshameback
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back
X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack
TikTok: tiktok.com/@handingshameback
Buzzsprout: handingtheshameback.buzzsprout.com
#HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign










