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I made this the first morning I woke up in Italy!!
visit my tiktok @lifeofpyper for the real song i wanted to pair with it :-)
I made this the first morning I woke up in Italy!!
visit my tiktok @lifeofpyper for the real song i wanted to pair with it :-)
![Decide to Stop Settling.
Please open me π
a letter for you & important links
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Hello friend,
This is a vlog of some moments in my week, where i take very exciting steps to build my business and continue creating my dream life. All the while, very heartbroken, I see how blessed I am, how everything is able to happen because I am present with the pain, present with the joy, and I thank my family and my community for loving me and supporting me so that I become braver with each passing day.
So when I say I am happy, I mean I am happy with my life, to move forward, even if I wish I didnt lose something I loved dearly. You can focus on loss, on the gains, but I suggest you do both.
To put simply, how to be happy while heartbroken is basking in the small wins, the big wins, the simple pleasures, and connection. Connection with yourself, honoring your feelings, and connection with those you effortlessly have fun with.
I used to think having a problem-free life would mean happiness, but that is like asking for a painting with no story, an unwritten book without an author. Living happily to me is to dream, to work hard meaningfully, and to experience love in all forms. And there is no grief is there is no love.
It takes bravery to bear witness to your grief, and that lesson I learned slowly (but gratefully) when I lost my father to cancer.
Last week also marked two years since he left. My my, has so much changed in just these last couple of years. Maybe this very formative time is causing me to speak to you like I am a wise old lady, or maybe I just yearn to be more & more in touch with myself as I grow more comfortable with solitude and the very tough art of letting go.
i love you so much,
and i will share more of my progress, reflections (and fun moments!) soon.
Annabelle
-Currently Reading π
Fiction: Klara and the Sun by Kazuo Ishiguro https://amzn.to/4c7ah6K or https://go.magik.ly/ml/20d4q/
Nonfiction: Rebel Talent by Francesca Gino https://amzn.to/3uKms8G or https://go.magik.ly/ml/20k6j/ Decide to Stop Settling.](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Q3TC0CSzZf0/mqdefault.jpg)









