Elliot Sang | Some Of You Should Not Be Parents @elliotsangestevez | Uploaded February 2023 | Updated October 2024, 1 week ago.
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Why is it that we find authoritarian parenting styles to be the standard? What gives us the impression these tactics are acceptable, let alone necessary? Where does this come from ideologically? And why did Elliot do that to his eyebrow?

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Bibliography

Jessica Winter (2022), “The Harsh Realm of “Gentle Parenting” newyorker.com/books/under-review/the-harsh-realm-of-gentle-parenting

Thich Nhat Hanh (2013), “The Art of Communicating”

“Diana Baumrind's (1966) Prototypical Descriptions of 3 Parenting Styles”, devpsy.org/teaching/parent/baumrind_styles.html

Diana Baumrind (1966), “Effects of Authoritative Parental Control on Child Behavior”, Child Development Vol. 37, No. 4, pp. 887-907 jstor.org/stable/1126611?origin=crossref&seq=11

Jacques Donzelot (1977), “The Policing of Families”



Clips from:

The Simpsons (“Hurricane Neddy”)

Pleasant Peasant Media, “What I Thought Responsive Parenting Was” youtube.com/shorts/5yKNH_D09Wg

Ed, Edd n Eddy (“3 Squares and an Ed”)

Democracy At Work, “Capitalism Hits Home: Family - A Feminist, Class Analysis” youtube.com/watch?v=m5jbAYLWij4

Bewitched (“Cousin Edgar”)



Paintings:

Pierre-Paul Prud'hon, “Rutger Jan Schimmelpenninck with his Wife and Children”

Francis William Edmonds, “The New Bonnet”