Uploaded August 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Today we’re talking about something every man feels but almost none will admit out loud: toxic shame around wanting sex, desire, and intimacy.
If you’ve ever felt like a creep for wanting your partner…
If you’ve ever felt weak, broken, unworthy, or embarrassed for having normal male sexual desire…
If you’ve ever buried who you really are just to “keep the peace”…
You are not alone.
In fact, this kind of shame is quietly destroying men everywhere. Their relationships. Their confidence. Their marriages. Their ability to show up as grounded, masculine men.
In this video, I break down:
How shame gets installed in boys from day one
How it turns into codependency and Nice Guy behavior
Why Nice Guys end up sexless, resentful, and blindsided
How to finally break the toxic shame cycle
The steps to reconnecting with your body, your desires, and your masculine core
Why community and accountability are essential for healing
If you’re a man carrying around decades of sexual shame…
If you’ve been suppressing who you really are…
If you’re stuck in a dead bedroom…
You’re going to want to watch this one all the way through.
👉 If this hits home, join hundreds of other men doing the work inside the HFM Brotherhood: helpformen.com/join
📚 Recommended books mentioned:
No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover
Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody
Healing the Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw
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Today we’re talking about something every man feels but almost none will admit out loud: toxic shame around wanting sex, desire, and intimacy.
If you’ve ever felt like a creep for wanting your partner…
If you’ve ever felt weak, broken, unworthy, or embarrassed for having normal male sexual desire…
If you’ve ever buried who you really are just to “keep the peace”…
You are not alone.
In fact, this kind of shame is quietly destroying men everywhere. Their relationships. Their confidence. Their marriages. Their ability to show up as grounded, masculine men.
In this video, I break down:
How shame gets installed in boys from day one
How it turns into codependency and Nice Guy behavior
Why Nice Guys end up sexless, resentful, and blindsided
How to finally break the toxic shame cycle
The steps to reconnecting with your body, your desires, and your masculine core
Why community and accountability are essential for healing
If you’re a man carrying around decades of sexual shame…
If you’ve been suppressing who you really are…
If you’re stuck in a dead bedroom…
You’re going to want to watch this one all the way through.
👉 If this hits home, join hundreds of other men doing the work inside the HFM Brotherhood: helpformen.com/join
📚 Recommended books mentioned:
No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover
Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody
Healing the Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw
Dad Starting Over is part of the Help For Men network! Learn more at helpformen.com
🌐The HFM Brotherhood (private group for men only): helpformen.com/join
FOLLOW ME ON
💥 Facebook facebook.com/dadstartingover
💥 TikTok: tiktok.com/@dad.starting.over
💥 Instagram: instagram.com/dadstartingover
💥 X: twitter.com/dadstartingover
Our Books:
🌐The Dead Bedroom Fix: deadbedroomfix.com
🌐Divorce Panic: divorcepanic.com
🌐Real Talk: helpformen.com/real-talk
Support Our Sponsors!
BetterHelp - Get 10% off your first month! betterhelp.com/helpformen
