Uploaded January 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
I sat down with Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, to talk about why so many men stay stuck in dead bedrooms, bad relationships, rumination, anxiety, and post-divorce paralysis—despite “doing everything right.”
We get into:
Why Nice Guy behavior isn’t kindness, it’s fear
How victim mentality keeps men trapped (and why it’s addictive)
Trauma bonds, rumination, and why some men can’t move on after divorce
Why men need other men—and why isolation makes everything worse
The difference between healthy giving vs. covert contracts
Why strength, boundaries, and self-respect are actually attractive
This conversation went deep—real talk about accountability, masculinity, relationships, depression, and what it actually takes for a man to rebuild his life.
If you’re dealing with a sexless marriage, divorce fallout, or you just feel stuck and lost, this one’s for you.
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👉 My book The Dead Bedroom Fix: deadbedroomfix.com
👉 Brofest 2026 (Louisville, KY – March 27–28): brofest2026.com
You’re not broken. You’re just trying to do hard things without the right tools—or the right men around you.
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I sat down with Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, to talk about why so many men stay stuck in dead bedrooms, bad relationships, rumination, anxiety, and post-divorce paralysis—despite “doing everything right.”
We get into:
Why Nice Guy behavior isn’t kindness, it’s fear
How victim mentality keeps men trapped (and why it’s addictive)
Trauma bonds, rumination, and why some men can’t move on after divorce
Why men need other men—and why isolation makes everything worse
The difference between healthy giving vs. covert contracts
Why strength, boundaries, and self-respect are actually attractive
This conversation went deep—real talk about accountability, masculinity, relationships, depression, and what it actually takes for a man to rebuild his life.
If you’re dealing with a sexless marriage, divorce fallout, or you just feel stuck and lost, this one’s for you.
👉 Join the Brotherhood: helpformen.com/join
👉 My book The Dead Bedroom Fix: deadbedroomfix.com
👉 Brofest 2026 (Louisville, KY – March 27–28): brofest2026.com
You’re not broken. You’re just trying to do hard things without the right tools—or the right men around you.
FOLLOW ME ON
💥 Facebook facebook.com/dadstartingover
💥 TikTok: tiktok.com/@dad.starting.over
💥 Instagram: instagram.com/dadstartingover
💥 X: twitter.com/dadstartingover
Our Books:
🌐The Dead Bedroom Fix: deadbedroomfix.com
🌐Divorce Panic: divorcepanic.com
🌐Real Talk: helpformen.com/real-talk
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BetterHelp - Get 10% off your first month! betterhelp.com/helpformen
