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One customer email. Three completely different interpretations.
Tim read it and thought the customer was a dirtbag who wanted his money back.
His son read it the same way.
Then a technician looked at it without the emotion and saw something completely different: a customer with a couple of problems that needed to be fixed.
That is the danger of email and text.
You read the customer’s words in whatever mood you are already in. Then you invent a story, react emotionally, and create a bigger problem than the one you actually have.
In this episode of The Contractor Fight Podcast, Tim and Derek break down:
* Why contractors assume every customer call is bad news
* How to respond when an angry email hits your inbox
* Why waiting 24 hours can save the relationship
* How labeling and better questions calm frustrated customers
* Why picking up the phone beats hiding behind text
* What your contract should say about animals, damage, fences, buried obstacles, and circumstances outside your control
* How to protect your company without making your contract impossible to sign
Your customer may not be the problem.
The story you are telling yourself about them might be.
Chapters
00:00 An unexpected Fourth of July customer complaint
01:42 Reading the angry email
02:49 The danger of inventing tone
04:06 Why emotional responses need 24 hours
04:31 A second opinion changes everything
05:23 Getting the customer on the phone
06:20 The story in your head is not the truth
07:11 The “bad” customer call that was about a credit card
08:12 Contractors apparently become bird watchers
11:30 Stop selling through text and email
12:33 A $28,000 pond problem returns three years later
15:18 Protecting your business from animal damage
16:48 What your contract cannot control
17:01 The customer call everyone assumed was bad
18:13 The complaint that turned into an $11,000 sale
18:25 Labeling frustrated customers
19:32 Every contractor needs a real contract
20:59 Why you should review the contract with the client
22:07 Making difficult contract terms easier to accept
22:50 Fences, irrigation, wiring, and buried surprises
23:32 Contracts should build trust, not destroy it
24:09 Final takeaway
Tom Reber is the founder of The Contractor Fight, host of Contractor Fight TV, entrepreneur, speaker, podcaster, and former HGTV host.
For over 10 years, Tom has helped hundreds of thousands of contractors build businesses worth having by becoming the kind of people capable of building them.
On this channel you'll find straight-talk training on sales, pricing, profit, leadership, marketing, mindset, and what it really takes to build a Strong You, Strong Home, and Strong Business.
The first fight is always with yourself.
Join The Fight. 👊
#contractors #contractorsales #construction #bluecollar #trades #salestraining #businessowner
Sales training for Contractors: thecontractorfight.com/command
Grab Tom's book FREE: thecontractorfight.com/book
One customer email. Three completely different interpretations.
Tim read it and thought the customer was a dirtbag who wanted his money back.
His son read it the same way.
Then a technician looked at it without the emotion and saw something completely different: a customer with a couple of problems that needed to be fixed.
That is the danger of email and text.
You read the customer’s words in whatever mood you are already in. Then you invent a story, react emotionally, and create a bigger problem than the one you actually have.
In this episode of The Contractor Fight Podcast, Tim and Derek break down:
* Why contractors assume every customer call is bad news
* How to respond when an angry email hits your inbox
* Why waiting 24 hours can save the relationship
* How labeling and better questions calm frustrated customers
* Why picking up the phone beats hiding behind text
* What your contract should say about animals, damage, fences, buried obstacles, and circumstances outside your control
* How to protect your company without making your contract impossible to sign
Your customer may not be the problem.
The story you are telling yourself about them might be.
Chapters
00:00 An unexpected Fourth of July customer complaint
01:42 Reading the angry email
02:49 The danger of inventing tone
04:06 Why emotional responses need 24 hours
04:31 A second opinion changes everything
05:23 Getting the customer on the phone
06:20 The story in your head is not the truth
07:11 The “bad” customer call that was about a credit card
08:12 Contractors apparently become bird watchers
11:30 Stop selling through text and email
12:33 A $28,000 pond problem returns three years later
15:18 Protecting your business from animal damage
16:48 What your contract cannot control
17:01 The customer call everyone assumed was bad
18:13 The complaint that turned into an $11,000 sale
18:25 Labeling frustrated customers
19:32 Every contractor needs a real contract
20:59 Why you should review the contract with the client
22:07 Making difficult contract terms easier to accept
22:50 Fences, irrigation, wiring, and buried surprises
23:32 Contracts should build trust, not destroy it
24:09 Final takeaway
Tom Reber is the founder of The Contractor Fight, host of Contractor Fight TV, entrepreneur, speaker, podcaster, and former HGTV host.
For over 10 years, Tom has helped hundreds of thousands of contractors build businesses worth having by becoming the kind of people capable of building them.
On this channel you'll find straight-talk training on sales, pricing, profit, leadership, marketing, mindset, and what it really takes to build a Strong You, Strong Home, and Strong Business.
The first fight is always with yourself.
Join The Fight. 👊
#contractors #contractorsales #construction #bluecollar #trades #salestraining #businessowner
