Uploaded October 2024 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
In this episode, we explore the complexities of relationships with licensed therapist Vienna Pharaon, who helps us understand why some relationships thrive while others become disconnected or harmful. We delve into topics like why we’re attracted to certain people, how to change those attractions, the dangers of blaming in relationships, and why trying to change our partner isn’t always the solution. Vienna also discusses when it’s time to leave a relationship, the risks of projecting potential onto partners, and the importance of self-love and shadow work. Ultimately, she reveals why "losing yourself in an attempt to keep someone else" is one of the greatest abandonments of our time, encouraging us all to look inward and change our relationship patterns for the better.
🎙️ Guest: Vienna Pharoan
🔮 Majic Hour Podcast: Ep. 81 (Part 2)
IN THIS EPISODE WE COVER:
• Why we’re attracted to who we’re attracted to
• How do we change who we’re attracted to
• Blaming in relationship
• Why changing our partner is often not the answer
• When the right time to leave a relationship is
• Projecting: why we sometimes put emphasis on the potential we see in a partner, rather than on their actuality
• How to practice self love
• How to identify self hate and do our shadow work
• How “losing yourself in an attempt to keep someone else, is one of the greatest abandonments of our time”.
• How to move the emotions through us in a more balanced way and get to a healed places with more grace and ease
• The importance of going to a different therapist for couples counseling then for personal therapy
MAJIC TRICKS:
• Some things to ask yourself when you’re upset
• Questions to ask yourself while gossiping
Hit the links below if you wanna' go deeper with me. 👇
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MATCh Podcast: youtube.com/watch?v=zx_YKegRVjw&list=PLXOaaL0ruNhMO-v2A9SPis6Tpj8LUMsjf&pp=gAQBiAQB
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In this episode, we explore the complexities of relationships with licensed therapist Vienna Pharaon, who helps us understand why some relationships thrive while others become disconnected or harmful. We delve into topics like why we’re attracted to certain people, how to change those attractions, the dangers of blaming in relationships, and why trying to change our partner isn’t always the solution. Vienna also discusses when it’s time to leave a relationship, the risks of projecting potential onto partners, and the importance of self-love and shadow work. Ultimately, she reveals why "losing yourself in an attempt to keep someone else" is one of the greatest abandonments of our time, encouraging us all to look inward and change our relationship patterns for the better.
🎙️ Guest: Vienna Pharoan
🔮 Majic Hour Podcast: Ep. 81 (Part 2)
IN THIS EPISODE WE COVER:
• Why we’re attracted to who we’re attracted to
• How do we change who we’re attracted to
• Blaming in relationship
• Why changing our partner is often not the answer
• When the right time to leave a relationship is
• Projecting: why we sometimes put emphasis on the potential we see in a partner, rather than on their actuality
• How to practice self love
• How to identify self hate and do our shadow work
• How “losing yourself in an attempt to keep someone else, is one of the greatest abandonments of our time”.
• How to move the emotions through us in a more balanced way and get to a healed places with more grace and ease
• The importance of going to a different therapist for couples counseling then for personal therapy
MAJIC TRICKS:
• Some things to ask yourself when you’re upset
• Questions to ask yourself while gossiping
Hit the links below if you wanna' go deeper with me. 👇
Website: mercedesterrell.com
IG: instagram.com/mercedesterrell
FB: facebook.com/MercedesTerrellOfficial
Blog: mercedesterrell.com/majic-hour-podcast-episodes/81-part-1-why-were-attracted-to-who-were-attracted-to-how-to-heal-toxic-patterns-with-vienna-pharoan
MATCh Podcast: youtube.com/watch?v=zx_YKegRVjw&list=PLXOaaL0ruNhMO-v2A9SPis6Tpj8LUMsjf&pp=gAQBiAQB
More ways to support the channel: mercedesterrell.com/links
Newsletter: mercedesterrell.com/mercedes-mailing-lists
