On the Bitter-sweetness of language learning @juliannorthbrook
On the Bitter-sweetness of language learning  @juliannorthbrook
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I’ve been in Taipei for just over 24 hours.

And you know what?

I love it.

Reminds me of Tokyo, but with several important differences.

Language being one of them.

I’d forgotten how frustrating it is to be somewhere where you don’t understand the language (even the basics).

Everything becomes so difficult and frustrating.
When I first went to Japan, I at least knew some basics. Here, I know almost nothing other than “hello”, “thank you” and “goodbye” (I didn’t study the language at all in the end because I decided to prioritize my PhD thesis). But even as an intermediate I remember sitting in meetings where I worked feeling like a total idiot because I didn’t know what was being said. Or when I kinda understood and have ideas to share, but didn’t know how to express them so kept quiet.
The feeling here is the same, except on a more basic level.

For example today I walked into the fitting room of a clothes shop and just help up the thing I wanted to try on: I don’t even have close to enough language to even attempt saying, “can I try this on?”.

Throwing yourself into the deep-end of language learning is a bitter-sweet experience.

On the on hand, it's good fun.

On the other, it's frustrating as hell.

Not to worry though.

I’m here for just over two weeks: and there’s a LOT can be done in that time.

Of course, I’ll be following all my own advice.

Advice that'll be giving in our event on December 11th.

Info here:

doingenglish.com/dec11

Best,
Julian


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