Meta-communication & Managing Up Through Questions - Coaching Reflections @apolaine
Meta-communication & Managing Up Through Questions - Coaching Reflections  @apolaine
Uploaded April 2024 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
I spend my days coaching design leaders, helping them improve themselves and their organisations. Managing upwards, meta-communication — the communication around the work vs the work itself — and the importance of showing your work are this week's reflections. Plus a bonus clip of me tandem skydiving.

TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Start
00:18 Questions as a way of managing up
02:37 Deadlines are not real.
03:28 The importance of ideating and sketching. Show your working!
07:50 Meta-communication
10:23 Why you need to think like a tandem skydiving instructor
11:51 Wrap up

LINKS
- Daniele Catalanotto on communicating about the work: linkedin.com/posts/master-design-hslu_servicedesign-activity-7179349812520062977-3QQa
- Julian Simpson on writing slow: developmenthell.substack.com/p/writing-slowly

- Design Leadership Coaching: polaine.com/coaching
- Andy's website - polaine.com
- Subscribe to Power of Ten podcast - pln.me/p10
- Subscribe to Andy’s newsletter Doctor’s Note - pln.me/nws
- Andy's YouTube channel - youtube.com/@apolaine
- Andy's online courses - courses.polaine.com
- Andy on Mastodon - https://pkm.social/@apolaine
- Andy on LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/apolaine
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