Uploaded September 2026 | Updated September 2026, 9 hours ago
Watch the full Commitment episode on the Solved podcast: https://mrk.mn/tc7phn0t. Most people think they're keeping their options open. What they're actually doing is running from a decision. In this one, Drew and I break down Kierkegaard's three stages of life and a brilliant follow-up from Walter Kaufmann, who mapped the ten sneaky ways we avoid commitment. He called it decidophobia. Drew shares the "practical" career choice that was really avoidance in disguise, and we get into why every escape hatch you build is a version of what Sartre called living in bad faith.
Chapters
00:00:00 Introduction: The Problem of Being Adrift
00:00:08 Kierkegaard's Three Stages of Life
00:00:45 The Religious Stage Isn't About Religion
00:01:12 Decidophobia: The Fear of Making Decisions
00:01:46 Drifting: Two Ways to Avoid Commitment
00:02:36 Marriage as an Escape from Decision-Making
00:03:16 Religion and the Outsourcing of Decisions
00:04:12 Stacking the Deck: Setting Yourself Up to Fail
00:04:39 Not Every Decision Deserves Full Commitment
00:05:21 The Power of Perceived Agency and Choice
00:06:09 Decidophobia in Disguise: A Personal Story
00:07:40 Bad Faith: Sartre's Take on Avoiding Responsibility
00:08:45 Outro: Full Episode and Resources
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Watch the full Commitment episode on the Solved podcast: https://mrk.mn/tc7phn0t. Most people think they're keeping their options open. What they're actually doing is running from a decision. In this one, Drew and I break down Kierkegaard's three stages of life and a brilliant follow-up from Walter Kaufmann, who mapped the ten sneaky ways we avoid commitment. He called it decidophobia. Drew shares the "practical" career choice that was really avoidance in disguise, and we get into why every escape hatch you build is a version of what Sartre called living in bad faith.
Chapters
00:00:00 Introduction: The Problem of Being Adrift
00:00:08 Kierkegaard's Three Stages of Life
00:00:45 The Religious Stage Isn't About Religion
00:01:12 Decidophobia: The Fear of Making Decisions
00:01:46 Drifting: Two Ways to Avoid Commitment
00:02:36 Marriage as an Escape from Decision-Making
00:03:16 Religion and the Outsourcing of Decisions
00:04:12 Stacking the Deck: Setting Yourself Up to Fail
00:04:39 Not Every Decision Deserves Full Commitment
00:05:21 The Power of Perceived Agency and Choice
00:06:09 Decidophobia in Disguise: A Personal Story
00:07:40 Bad Faith: Sartre's Take on Avoiding Responsibility
00:08:45 Outro: Full Episode and Resources
⇨ Sign up for my newsletter, Your Next Breakthrough. It will help make you a less awful person: go.markmanson.net/msub25ez
⇨ Get clarity on what actually matters. Try Purpose, Mark's AI mentor app that learns your patterns, challenges your blind spots, and helps you take action. Get started at go.markmanson.net/8owt1jc4
FOLLOW MARK
Mark's IG: instagram.com/markmanson
Solved IG: instagram.com/solvedpodcast/
Twitter: https://x.com/markmanson
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/markmanson/
#MarkManson #Solved #Kierkegaard #Commitment #Decidophobia #Philosophy #SelfImprovement
