Lisa Bilyeu | Jada Pinkett Smith on Will, Love, Confidence & Self-Love - “I Wish I Knew This Love Lesson Sooner!” @LisaBilyeu | Uploaded February 2024 | Updated October 2024, 12 hours ago.
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If you've ever accepted blame that wasn’t yours, sacrificed yourself for the “greater good”, or felt like the cards were stacked against you, this episode of Women of Impact featuring the ONE and ONLY Jada Pinkett Smith is for you!
Jada is here sharing the MANY frikin’ HARD lessons she learned along her journey to help you GET BACK UP when life knocks you down. From “The Entanglement”, to “The Slap”, to “The Eyeroll that MADE Him Do It”, Jada has taken hit after hit but she has more love, confidence, and self-acceptance than EVER before.
And today we’re going deep to talk about the adversities she has faced and why she’s actually GRATEFUL for it!
We’re talking about:
- How relationships and love are a PRACTICE
- Why you MUST stop expecting society’s romanticized and idealistic beliefs to be true
- The difference between making a Sacred Sacrifice and self-betrayal
- How having the courage to be disliked by others leads to self-love
- Why you need to focus on making decisions where you can look in the mirror and feel frikin’ PROUD of yourself
So, if you've ever accepted blame that wasn’t yours, sacrificed yourself for the “greater good”, or felt like the cards were stacked against you, Jada’s wisdom in this episode will speak to YOU, homie!
Get Your Copy of “Worthy” here: amazon.com/Jada-Pinkett-Smith/dp/0063320681
Chapter Markers:
💪 [00:00] Finding Inner Strength & Embracing Reality
👩❤️👨 [09:36] Relationships are a Practice
🧠 [17:39] Know Who You Are
👍🏼 [25:08] Choose Your Pain
🙌 [30:42] Going Against the Grain
📝 [39:20] Live by Your Own Code
🔥A-MAZING QUOTES FROM JADA:
"I'm really grateful for all of the adversity that I've had because it's really helped cure self judgment.”
“Once we really know who we are and are willing and have the courage to do the work, to really find out who and what we are, we start to realize that all the daggers that come from other people is their self judgment projected onto your self judgment."
"At the end of the day, we have all the control to change whatever we need within ourselves to have the lives that we want. So the moment that we're willing to stop worrying about what other people are doing, and we're focusing on what are those things within myself that I need to change to help me have the life that I want to have, help me be the person that I want to be - that's when things start clicking, that's when things start rolling."
"I feel like we're all addicts in one way or another. Every single person you'll ever meet, it's like, but what are we addicted to, right? And a lot of us are addicted to our psychological cycles, right?"
"I had to just start getting more real and start breaking down these romanticized, idealistic ideas of what I wanted my life to look like."
"...it doesn't matter how much money you make, how much success you have, how much fame you have, you're not exempt from being a human being. You're not exempt from the pain of human relating. You're still a human being. That's it."
"How somebody thinks about me honestly has nothing to do with me. If my kids were going out here and saying the things that other people are saying who don't know me, then I'd be concerned."
“Whatever is calling your soul, answer those calls and have the courage to be disliked. Have the courage to be disliked because if you don't have the courage to be disliked, you will never self actualize, specifically as a woman, because you're going to have to do some shit that people ain't going to like."
Follow Jada Pinkett Smith:
Website: ourworthyjourney.com
Instagram: instagram.com/jadapinkettsmith
Get Your Copy of “Worthy”: amazon.com/Jada-Pinkett-Smith/dp/0063320681
Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:
Website: radicalconfidence.com
Instagram: instagram.com/lisabilyeu
Facebook: facebook.com/lisabilyeu
X: twitter.com/lisabilyeu
Become Un-Frikin’ Stoppable and Build Your Dream Life bit.ly/3SZF9gU
If you've ever accepted blame that wasn’t yours, sacrificed yourself for the “greater good”, or felt like the cards were stacked against you, this episode of Women of Impact featuring the ONE and ONLY Jada Pinkett Smith is for you!
Jada is here sharing the MANY frikin’ HARD lessons she learned along her journey to help you GET BACK UP when life knocks you down. From “The Entanglement”, to “The Slap”, to “The Eyeroll that MADE Him Do It”, Jada has taken hit after hit but she has more love, confidence, and self-acceptance than EVER before.
And today we’re going deep to talk about the adversities she has faced and why she’s actually GRATEFUL for it!
We’re talking about:
- How relationships and love are a PRACTICE
- Why you MUST stop expecting society’s romanticized and idealistic beliefs to be true
- The difference between making a Sacred Sacrifice and self-betrayal
- How having the courage to be disliked by others leads to self-love
- Why you need to focus on making decisions where you can look in the mirror and feel frikin’ PROUD of yourself
So, if you've ever accepted blame that wasn’t yours, sacrificed yourself for the “greater good”, or felt like the cards were stacked against you, Jada’s wisdom in this episode will speak to YOU, homie!
Get Your Copy of “Worthy” here: amazon.com/Jada-Pinkett-Smith/dp/0063320681
Chapter Markers:
💪 [00:00] Finding Inner Strength & Embracing Reality
👩❤️👨 [09:36] Relationships are a Practice
🧠 [17:39] Know Who You Are
👍🏼 [25:08] Choose Your Pain
🙌 [30:42] Going Against the Grain
📝 [39:20] Live by Your Own Code
🔥A-MAZING QUOTES FROM JADA:
"I'm really grateful for all of the adversity that I've had because it's really helped cure self judgment.”
“Once we really know who we are and are willing and have the courage to do the work, to really find out who and what we are, we start to realize that all the daggers that come from other people is their self judgment projected onto your self judgment."
"At the end of the day, we have all the control to change whatever we need within ourselves to have the lives that we want. So the moment that we're willing to stop worrying about what other people are doing, and we're focusing on what are those things within myself that I need to change to help me have the life that I want to have, help me be the person that I want to be - that's when things start clicking, that's when things start rolling."
"I feel like we're all addicts in one way or another. Every single person you'll ever meet, it's like, but what are we addicted to, right? And a lot of us are addicted to our psychological cycles, right?"
"I had to just start getting more real and start breaking down these romanticized, idealistic ideas of what I wanted my life to look like."
"...it doesn't matter how much money you make, how much success you have, how much fame you have, you're not exempt from being a human being. You're not exempt from the pain of human relating. You're still a human being. That's it."
"How somebody thinks about me honestly has nothing to do with me. If my kids were going out here and saying the things that other people are saying who don't know me, then I'd be concerned."
“Whatever is calling your soul, answer those calls and have the courage to be disliked. Have the courage to be disliked because if you don't have the courage to be disliked, you will never self actualize, specifically as a woman, because you're going to have to do some shit that people ain't going to like."
Follow Jada Pinkett Smith:
Website: ourworthyjourney.com
Instagram: instagram.com/jadapinkettsmith
Get Your Copy of “Worthy”: amazon.com/Jada-Pinkett-Smith/dp/0063320681
Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:
Website: radicalconfidence.com
Instagram: instagram.com/lisabilyeu
Facebook: facebook.com/lisabilyeu
X: twitter.com/lisabilyeu
