Lisa Bilyeu | #1 Therapist: WATCH OUT for These SNEAKY Manipulation Tactics That Always Trick Women | Terri Cole @LisaBilyeu | Uploaded May 2023 | Updated October 2024, 14 hours ago.
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On Today's Episode:
There is something both sobering and chilling about being manipulated, especially by someone close to you. The feeling of betrayal and pain can leave you untrusting of everyone after that, and the emotional aftermath can lead to years of therapy or unhealthy behaviors.
If you’re a ‘Yes’ to any of these, this episode is a must for you:
- Have fallen for people’s fake concern at the expense of invalidating yourself
- Felt suffocated by the weight of someone’s constant complaining
- Started questioning your version of reality because you were being gaslit
The Boundary Boss and one of our favorite homies on Women of Impact, Terri Cole, is back for another round and this time she’s unpacking everything you need to never be tricked by manipulative people again! They want to get their way no matter what at your expense, and it’s your job to recognize it and put an end to it with the right boundaries in place.
Terri Cole is a licensed therapist and bestselling author who helps women like you break the cycle of living without boundaries. It doesn’t matter who you are or what your past is, everyone deserves and needs boundaries to create and maintain healthy relationships.
If you’re walking on eggshells at home, it’s time to sit up straight and pay attention.
Check out Terri’s new book, Boundary Boss: amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Essential-Guide-Finally/dp/1683647688
QUOTES:
“There is something about having the patients to let the proof be in people’s behaviors and not just their words.” - Terri Cole
“I don’t want to start cutting off parts of myself to appease your wounds. You’re bleeding all over me but I didn’t cut you.” - Terri Cole
“If we have evidence that the person we’re talking about has no capacity for self reflection, no interest in taking responsibility for what is their side of the street, that is someone who in my book is truly toxic.” - Terri Cole
“Ego is a story of us very much grounded in our lived experiences…” -Nicole LePera
“What feels like disproportionate reactions actually aren’t disproportionate. They are safety making mechanisms.” -Nicole LePera
“So many of us grew up as an extension of our parents.” -Nicole LePera
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Follow Nicole LePera:
Website: theholisticpsychologist.com
YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCtEWTaMjqOH8J1Gy06Ey0Yg
Instagram: instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist
Watch the entire exclusive Mental Health Month video mini-series here: https://open.spotify.com/show/0n43TTk... and
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Check out my FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop! - bit.ly/3fZcbO5
On Today's Episode:
There is something both sobering and chilling about being manipulated, especially by someone close to you. The feeling of betrayal and pain can leave you untrusting of everyone after that, and the emotional aftermath can lead to years of therapy or unhealthy behaviors.
If you’re a ‘Yes’ to any of these, this episode is a must for you:
- Have fallen for people’s fake concern at the expense of invalidating yourself
- Felt suffocated by the weight of someone’s constant complaining
- Started questioning your version of reality because you were being gaslit
The Boundary Boss and one of our favorite homies on Women of Impact, Terri Cole, is back for another round and this time she’s unpacking everything you need to never be tricked by manipulative people again! They want to get their way no matter what at your expense, and it’s your job to recognize it and put an end to it with the right boundaries in place.
Terri Cole is a licensed therapist and bestselling author who helps women like you break the cycle of living without boundaries. It doesn’t matter who you are or what your past is, everyone deserves and needs boundaries to create and maintain healthy relationships.
If you’re walking on eggshells at home, it’s time to sit up straight and pay attention.
Check out Terri’s new book, Boundary Boss: amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Essential-Guide-Finally/dp/1683647688
QUOTES:
“There is something about having the patients to let the proof be in people’s behaviors and not just their words.” - Terri Cole
“I don’t want to start cutting off parts of myself to appease your wounds. You’re bleeding all over me but I didn’t cut you.” - Terri Cole
“If we have evidence that the person we’re talking about has no capacity for self reflection, no interest in taking responsibility for what is their side of the street, that is someone who in my book is truly toxic.” - Terri Cole
“Ego is a story of us very much grounded in our lived experiences…” -Nicole LePera
“What feels like disproportionate reactions actually aren’t disproportionate. They are safety making mechanisms.” -Nicole LePera
“So many of us grew up as an extension of our parents.” -Nicole LePera
Follow Terri Cole:
Website: terricole.com
YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UC-OC1zN27enpTA_eNWB7dKw
Podcast: terricole.com/podcast
Twitter: twitter.com/terri_cole
Instagram: instagram.com/terricole
Facebook: facebook.com/TerriColeLCSW
Follow Nicole LePera:
Website: theholisticpsychologist.com
YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCtEWTaMjqOH8J1Gy06Ey0Yg
Instagram: instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist
