Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

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Is it okay to ask your partner to get a haircut, or tell them to stop wearing something? | Subscribe: youtube.com/RNZVideo?sub_confirmation=1

For some couples, this level of direction works. But it won’t work for all relationships.

Experts weigh in - read the full story: rnz.co.nz/life/relationships/love-and-sex/can-i-tell-my-partner-what-to-wear-or-how-to-look