Uploaded December 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 hours ago
What happens when a homeschooled comedy YouTuber and a former fundamentalist Mormon boy (also homeschooled) compare childhoods?
Chaos. Laughter. Trauma bonding--and a surprising amount of sneaking out through windows.
In this episode, Rae (@RaesWAYOverdoingIt) opens up about her intensely controlled upbringing—no pants, no dancing, no locked doors, no autonomy—and how she secretly built a creative empire anyway. From tracking her money in a ledger at 13 to filming 250 Amazon videos just to fund her escape, her story is WILD.
We also talk about:
• Calvin’s life in a literal polygamist cult (44 siblings, 4 moms)
• How both of us had to sneak to be ourselves
• The weird things parents punish when they’re threatened by your freedom
• Why people hate when you succeed
• Turning your most painful memories into art
• Processing childhood control, religious fear, and the hunger for autonomy
• And why dancing on a VidSummit stage somehow brought us together
This conversation goes deeper than either of us expected. It’s raw, hilarious, heartbreaking, and empowering.
If you grew up homeschooled, religious, controlled, sheltered, or just “different”—you’re gonna feel this one.
Welcome back to Cultured Boy. Let’s dive in.
00:00 The “Cult of Homeschooled” Cold Open 🎒
00:54 Calvin’s 44 Siblings Intro 🤯
01:46 Rae vs Taylor Swift: The Numbers 📈
02:40 We Met Dancing on Stage at VidSummit 🕺
04:04 Homeschool Myths & Secret Nerd Superpowers 🧠
07:28 Polygamist Schoolhouse vs Southern Homeschool 🏡
11:29 Teenage Money Ledgers & Hustling for Freedom 💸
18:02 Sneaking Jobs, Cash & Forbidden Wendy’s 🍔
23:41 Why You Can’t Tell Everyone Your Good News 😶🌫️
30:30 No Proms, No Dancing, No Pants: Control 101 💃🚫
43:35 “I Started YouTube So People Would Finally Like Me” 📹
49:12 Screwed Windows, No Locked Doors & Punishing Autonomy 🔒
1:09:35 250 Amazon Videos & The Great Escape Car 🚗
1:21:00 Turning Homeschool Trauma Into Comedy & Cash 🎭
1:28:39 You’re Not Late—All the Rules Are Made Up ⏰
What happens when a homeschooled comedy YouTuber and a former fundamentalist Mormon boy (also homeschooled) compare childhoods?
Chaos. Laughter. Trauma bonding--and a surprising amount of sneaking out through windows.
In this episode, Rae (@RaesWAYOverdoingIt) opens up about her intensely controlled upbringing—no pants, no dancing, no locked doors, no autonomy—and how she secretly built a creative empire anyway. From tracking her money in a ledger at 13 to filming 250 Amazon videos just to fund her escape, her story is WILD.
We also talk about:
• Calvin’s life in a literal polygamist cult (44 siblings, 4 moms)
• How both of us had to sneak to be ourselves
• The weird things parents punish when they’re threatened by your freedom
• Why people hate when you succeed
• Turning your most painful memories into art
• Processing childhood control, religious fear, and the hunger for autonomy
• And why dancing on a VidSummit stage somehow brought us together
This conversation goes deeper than either of us expected. It’s raw, hilarious, heartbreaking, and empowering.
If you grew up homeschooled, religious, controlled, sheltered, or just “different”—you’re gonna feel this one.
Welcome back to Cultured Boy. Let’s dive in.
00:00 The “Cult of Homeschooled” Cold Open 🎒
00:54 Calvin’s 44 Siblings Intro 🤯
01:46 Rae vs Taylor Swift: The Numbers 📈
02:40 We Met Dancing on Stage at VidSummit 🕺
04:04 Homeschool Myths & Secret Nerd Superpowers 🧠
07:28 Polygamist Schoolhouse vs Southern Homeschool 🏡
11:29 Teenage Money Ledgers & Hustling for Freedom 💸
18:02 Sneaking Jobs, Cash & Forbidden Wendy’s 🍔
23:41 Why You Can’t Tell Everyone Your Good News 😶🌫️
30:30 No Proms, No Dancing, No Pants: Control 101 💃🚫
43:35 “I Started YouTube So People Would Finally Like Me” 📹
49:12 Screwed Windows, No Locked Doors & Punishing Autonomy 🔒
1:09:35 250 Amazon Videos & The Great Escape Car 🚗
1:21:00 Turning Homeschool Trauma Into Comedy & Cash 🎭
1:28:39 You’re Not Late—All the Rules Are Made Up ⏰
