Uploaded November 2025 | Updated September 2026, 38 minutes ago
Experiencing new cultures is food for my soul. Today I got to try an Ethiopian coffee ceremony. Here’s what I’ve learned.
The traditional Ethiopian coffee ceremony (called bunna) is central to daily life and gatherings. It’s an elaborate process that can take an hour or more:
1. The host roasts green coffee beans over an open flame.
2. Guests are invited to smell the freshly roasted beans — this is part of the experience.
3. The beans are ground and brewed in a clay pot called a jebena.
4. Coffee is poured into small cups from a height to create a frothy top, often served with sugar or sometimes salt or butter depending on the region.
5. Serving coffee is seen as a gesture of respect and connection; refusing coffee can even be considered impolite in some settings.
We had popcorn served with the coffee, as well as incense burning too. It smelled so good! What an experience.
With - @kiratheyogi
Location: Bunna Cafe, Brooklyn
Experiencing new cultures is food for my soul. Today I got to try an Ethiopian coffee ceremony. Here’s what I’ve learned.
The traditional Ethiopian coffee ceremony (called bunna) is central to daily life and gatherings. It’s an elaborate process that can take an hour or more:
1. The host roasts green coffee beans over an open flame.
2. Guests are invited to smell the freshly roasted beans — this is part of the experience.
3. The beans are ground and brewed in a clay pot called a jebena.
4. Coffee is poured into small cups from a height to create a frothy top, often served with sugar or sometimes salt or butter depending on the region.
5. Serving coffee is seen as a gesture of respect and connection; refusing coffee can even be considered impolite in some settings.
We had popcorn served with the coffee, as well as incense burning too. It smelled so good! What an experience.
With - @kiratheyogi
Location: Bunna Cafe, Brooklyn


![Why 11:11 matters to me. (Revealing The Brutal Truth About My Dad)
Episode 33: 11/11. I used to roll my eyes at “meaningful numbers.”
Then when my dad was passing, everything changed.
In this time-capsule episode I share why 11:11 won’t let me go: leaving a fundamentalist Mormon cult, standing up to my dad, two years of distance, two years of honest reconnection after his stage-4 diagnosis, and the moment that changed everything. It’s about anger, boundaries, forgiveness—and betting on honest art over the algorithm.
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Time Stamps:
0:00 — 11/11 upload + why 11:11 keeps finding me ✨
0:45 — Quick intro: I’m Calvin, aka Cultured Boy 👋
2:35 — Deconstructing the cult = waking from The Matrix 🟩
4:49 — My dad: complicated, loved by all 45 of us ❤️🩹
6:07 — Violence growing up: the 17-year-old curfew beating 🥊
7:43 — Therapy, anger, and a vow to stop abuse 🚫
10:18 — Barbecue showdown: “Cute arms,” sarcasm escalates 🧨
16:17 — Drink thrown; I block a punch: “Don’t ever [ ] touch me” 🛑
23:20 — Front-yard face-off: naming the violence out loud ⚡️
26:20 — “Never come back.” I take space—and hold my line 🧭
33:00 — The pattern: sweeping things under the rug 🧹
34:31 — One text that mattered: “Thank you” from my mom 💌
40:27 — Two years of distance; seeing the man, not the tyrant 👀
44:00 — Returning for dinner: short sleeves, full-circle moment 🌀
47:01 — Stage-4 cancer: reaching out right before I knew 🩺
48:56 — Two honest years: talks, apologies, humanizing him 🗣️
52:55 — “Which one would you give back?”—a practical gut-check 🧩
54:39 — The last visit; he wakes: “Calvin, you made it.” at 11:11 ⏱️
1:01:21 — Locked out at the very end; choosing peace anyway 🕊️
1:03:03 — Why 11:11 now sticks; dreams of my dad 🌙
1:05:22 — Your turn: What did this evoke in you? 💭
1:06:06 — Sign-off: stay hungry, stay curious—follow the white rabbit 🐇 Why 11:11 matters to me. (Revealing The Brutal Truth About My Dad)](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/_Ch1cduru2c/mqdefault.jpg)







