I Hate Going to Bed on Time: Bedtime Procrastination @drali
I Hate Going to Bed on Time: Bedtime Procrastination  @drali
Uploaded October 2025 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
Want more energy in the morning but hate going to bed at night? Let’s talk about it.

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Livestream Community Guidelines:
1. Not therapy. This is education and entertainment. A cozy hangout, not a support group.
2. Kindness first. Speak like you would to a friend on a hard day.
3. Awkward is welcome. It’s okay to not know what to say (or say it weird). Embrace the mess.
4. Keep it light. Share your truth, but skip the graphic stuff.
5. Stick with the vibe. Stay on topic. Stay curious. Have fun.

00:00:00 Cozy Brain Hour Kickoff
00:05:09 Why We Procrastinate Bedtime (Community Polls + Chat Responses)
00:11:24 My Story: Family Life, Long COVID, and the Cost of Staying Up Late
00:13:29 Guest Interview: Dr. Vanessa Hill (BrainCraft)
00:16:32 Bedtime Procrastination Explained (Self-Care or Toxic Habit?)
00:18:27 Blue Light Panic vs. The Real Sleep Disruptors
00:23:31 Why “Me Time” Keeps Us Awake (and the Role of Phones & Work Boundaries)
00:30:19 A Brief History of Bedtime + Generational Shifts
00:31:28 Exercise, Sex, and Personalized Sleep Routines
00:35:40 Tomorrow Aversion: Dreading the Next Day
00:40:34 Gen Z, Stress, and Phone Habits at Night
00:42:26 Tech That Helps: Kindles, “Dumb Tablets,” and Better Sleep Tools
00:45:17 TikTok Sleep Hacks (Mouth Taping and Other Fads)
00:48:48 Fixing Bedtime Procrastination: Habits vs. Willpower
00:52:34 Work vs. Sleep Dilemma + Dr. Vanessa’s Practical Advice
00:55:00 Vanessa’s Closing Thoughts + Embracing Kindness Over Shame
00:56:13 Pajama Graduation Story + “Sleeping with Friends” Show Memories
01:00:04 Social Media, Shame, and Distorted Norms
01:05:36 My Plan: Wind-Down Rituals, Notebooks, and Star Trek as Sleep Aids
01:10:33 Cozy Brain Hour Update: Next Week’s Chill-Out Video
01:16:59 Game Segment: Snooze or Lose
01:30:00 Community Reflections on Winding Down + Music & Playlists for Sleep
01:45:00 Chat Discussion: Evening Routines and Sleep Struggles
01:50:30 Bedtime Stories: Segment Intro (how it works, Moth cards)
01:56:30 Bedtime Story #1 — “Heart-Skip” Crush & Flowers
02:03:55 Bedtime Story #2 — “Mama Rules: When My Mother Knew Best”
02:15:40 Cozy Crew Sendoff


For information purposes only. Does not constitute clinical advice. Consult your local medical authority for advice.

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