i had to start over after my first breakup.. here’s what nobody tells you @alessyafarrugia
i had to start over after my first breakup.. here’s what nobody tells you  @alessyafarrugia
Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 hours ago
to anyone going through a heartbreak, this is everything i wish someone told me.

my first heartbreak taught me so much. not just about how to actually heal and move on after a breakup, but about myself. in this video i’m walking you through every stage of my healing journey, sharing real breakup advice, and showing you how to come out of this stronger while actually learning and growing from it.

whether you’re dealing with your first breakup, being cheated on, or just trying to figure out how to start over and glow up, i'm sharing all the tools and mindset shifts that helped me to move on and rebuild myself into the woman i want to be.

so even if you’re not in the middle of a breakup, you found this video for a reason. this is about falling back in love with yourself, rebuilding your confidence, and choosing self love over everything. starting over can feel overwhelming, but know that you’re never alone in your journey. i hope my words resonate with you and can help you along the way.

even i forget sometimes how much having a support system means.. so thank you for being here, and thank you for being patient with me while i took a break this past year. it truly means the world to me that you’re here right now. ♡

no matter what you're going through, you’re going to be so much more than okay. you got this.
i love you. it’s good to be back ;)


some visual n storytelling inspo in this intro was inspired by creator raegan lynch ♡ her healing journey really inspired me along my own


what i talk about & the stages ♡
00:00 where i've been
03:48 my story
07:19 what nobody tells you about healing
10:38 emotional flood & identity crisis
15:29 no contact & self respect
19:43 romanticizing & delusion
24:33 anger & clarity
28:49 rebuilding & choosing yourself
32:35 the lessons in disguise
34:56 rebirth
i had to start over after my first breakup.. here’s what nobody tells youHOW TO QUICKLY GET OUT OF A RUT | recovering from burnout | regaining motivationMY REALISTIC HIGH SCHOOL MORNING ROUTINE10 MINUTE YOGA FOR STRESS RELIEF | follow along | think clearly and calmlythe long awaited skincare routine | my secret to clear skin revealedTHE COZIEST HOLIDAY VLOG | decorating my first apartment | christmas shopping | gift ideas | bakingforcing my sister into a skincare routinesome of my fav makeup products right now😝WHAT I EAT IN A DAY | healthy and simple meals & snacksMY UPDATED SKINCARE ROUTINE | unsponsored skincare for acneA NIGHT IN MY LIFE | vlogme right when it starts to feel like summer
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i had to start over after my first breakup.. here’s what nobody tells you

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