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You know that feeling when you say “yes” but deep down it’s a no? This video is all about how I finally stopped being a people pleaser, took my power back, and started setting real boundaries.🔥 #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healing
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get 30% off with code YOUTUBE30 (limited time only)
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contact (brand work only)
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timestamps:
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FTC: This video is sponsored by BetterHelp
If you’re struggling, consider therapy with my paid partner BetterHelp! Click betterhelp.com/nika for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy with a credentialed professional specific to your needs✨
📍 If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are credentialed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered
Come say hi! 🧸
🎀 Instagram: @nikaerculj instagram.com/nikaerculj
✨ TikTok: @nikitaerculj tiktok.com/@nikitaerculj
You know that feeling when you say “yes” but deep down it’s a no? This video is all about how I finally stopped being a people pleaser, took my power back, and started setting real boundaries.🔥 #peoplepleasing #selfworth #healing
👉🏼 the planner i use: nikatemplates.com/store/p/lifedesignplanner
get 30% off with code YOUTUBE30 (limited time only)
💸 Budget I use (get 10% off with code NIKA10): coplenty.com/?ref=nika
💫 See all the new year, new me videos for 2025: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLut3h0JNT-HjAW4cM-4uiJpkGQPut-Jx5
✧ videos you might like ✧
9 Things I QUIT to Simplify my Life youtu.be/ieV_6O9Rbko
How Top 1% Women ACTUALLY Live: 10 Daily Habits That Change ✨Everything✨ youtu.be/N2DM8Kij1v4
how to LOCK IN, refocus, be disciplined & change your life in 21 days | NEW ERA LOADING… youtu.be/PR7m6ctb8QU
✧ self-help books that changed my life: amzn.to/3qhdSM2
my book:
Amazon: amzn.to/3386uY6
contact (brand work only)
email: inquiries@nikaerculj.com
music:
♪ Free Music for Videos 👉 Music by Sonic Nothing - Blush - thmatc.co/?l=E645C665
timestamps:
00:00-03:48 i need to be easy to love
03:48-08:18 when it started & the alternative
08:18-11:06 negative side effects
11:06-11:55 the art of the pause
11:55-13:42 the small wants are key
13:42-16:59 lean back & observe
16:59-19:53 redirect your energy
19:53-22:36 attract different people
FTC: This video is sponsored by BetterHelp
