Uploaded June 2016 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
What are you drawn to do? Ask yourself the question, "Where do I think I could find women that I would click with?". And go do that. (More thoughts below!)
It's time to start learning to connect with our intuitions. Learn to trust your intuition. Instead of following "pure logistics", follow 'where you are drawn to" and make it a beautiful journey.
Are you drawn to a girl? Go after her.
Are you drawn to take a dance class to help meet women?
Are you drawn to volunteer somewhere?
Do you have any specific interest where you think you could meet compatible girls?
Be creative. Try new things even if you're not sure you'll like the activity. Explore. Put in the work.
What do you feel you should do? What do you think would create a beautiful unfolding of how to meet the type of women you'd like to meet?
Go do that. Get out of your comfort zone and even if very nervous, do it anyways. Grow your courage muscle. Feel the fear and go through it anyways. Force yourself. This will give you massive growth and self-love.
Where do you think you'd meet the type of women you'd like to date?
And what do you like doing for it's own sake? That's probably the highest chance of finding compatibility.
There is massive growth and development with putting yourself out there. It will also expand yourself as you try new things!
As Elliott Hulse says, what matters is THE PLACE YOU ARE COMING FROM.
Are you pursuing validation? Ego? Trying to get sex from girls because you are insecure? What to impress your friends?
Or are you pursuing beauty, love, and connection? :)
Here's my previous video, "The Best Place To Meet Women" you can look at for reference if you'd like: youtube.com/watch?v=DLq9FtrbBYs
Partner dance is a fantastic way to meet new people and especially women. Here's an excellent post on that: reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3rd80k/partner_dance_is_a_fantastic_way_to_meet_new
Get out of your comfort zone and go try partner dance classes!
Is is beautiful to meet girls in bars and clubs? The answer for me: not really. Is it beautiful to meet girls on tinder? The answer for me: no. (I have a friend who met his wonderful and beautiful wife on OKCupid tho) So I don’t go to bars and clubs to meet women and I don’t use tinder anymore. Those things can work. There is beauty everywhere! But just trying to more articulate my mindset here.
Most important thing is to put yourself out there, do what "works", try different things, be a "yes man" to social invites, etc.
p.s. When I talk about "beautiful women". I mean beautiful on the inside and outside. All women are beautiful. Get to know girls.
BTW, read the pinned comment for some updated thoughts!
►Watch this video, "How To Get Your Dream Girls / Oneitis & CRAZY Fantasies": youtube.com/watch?v=RqjmUMzsAsA
"The Alabaster Girl" book by Zan Perrion where I got the quote from: youtube.com/watch?v=2fVlYP0uN04
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Regarding all the messages I have ever given, I ask you guys to take nothing on my word, but to test the principles and the methods for yourselves and to always think critically. Everyone has their own individualization process. You may be an "outlier". Also, there appears to be a yin and a yang for everything (except God maybe?) that go together. Maybe you'll find some concept that will work awesome for you now, and then in the future you'll find that the polar opposite of that concept is what feels true for you! What matters is are you afraid of truth? Are you being real? Are your actions hurting others? And are you coming from a truly good place?
Graphic By: ChrisLegend (He shares his insights on life) - youtube.com/channel/UCZkYiXL629pc0zIu-Qy0tIQ
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I'd appreciate it if you: LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, SUBSCRIBE, & check out my other videos! :)
What are you drawn to do? Ask yourself the question, "Where do I think I could find women that I would click with?". And go do that. (More thoughts below!)
It's time to start learning to connect with our intuitions. Learn to trust your intuition. Instead of following "pure logistics", follow 'where you are drawn to" and make it a beautiful journey.
Are you drawn to a girl? Go after her.
Are you drawn to take a dance class to help meet women?
Are you drawn to volunteer somewhere?
Do you have any specific interest where you think you could meet compatible girls?
Be creative. Try new things even if you're not sure you'll like the activity. Explore. Put in the work.
What do you feel you should do? What do you think would create a beautiful unfolding of how to meet the type of women you'd like to meet?
Go do that. Get out of your comfort zone and even if very nervous, do it anyways. Grow your courage muscle. Feel the fear and go through it anyways. Force yourself. This will give you massive growth and self-love.
Where do you think you'd meet the type of women you'd like to date?
And what do you like doing for it's own sake? That's probably the highest chance of finding compatibility.
There is massive growth and development with putting yourself out there. It will also expand yourself as you try new things!
As Elliott Hulse says, what matters is THE PLACE YOU ARE COMING FROM.
Are you pursuing validation? Ego? Trying to get sex from girls because you are insecure? What to impress your friends?
Or are you pursuing beauty, love, and connection? :)
Here's my previous video, "The Best Place To Meet Women" you can look at for reference if you'd like: youtube.com/watch?v=DLq9FtrbBYs
Partner dance is a fantastic way to meet new people and especially women. Here's an excellent post on that: reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3rd80k/partner_dance_is_a_fantastic_way_to_meet_new
Get out of your comfort zone and go try partner dance classes!
Is is beautiful to meet girls in bars and clubs? The answer for me: not really. Is it beautiful to meet girls on tinder? The answer for me: no. (I have a friend who met his wonderful and beautiful wife on OKCupid tho) So I don’t go to bars and clubs to meet women and I don’t use tinder anymore. Those things can work. There is beauty everywhere! But just trying to more articulate my mindset here.
Most important thing is to put yourself out there, do what "works", try different things, be a "yes man" to social invites, etc.
p.s. When I talk about "beautiful women". I mean beautiful on the inside and outside. All women are beautiful. Get to know girls.
BTW, read the pinned comment for some updated thoughts!
►Watch this video, "How To Get Your Dream Girls / Oneitis & CRAZY Fantasies": youtube.com/watch?v=RqjmUMzsAsA
"The Alabaster Girl" book by Zan Perrion where I got the quote from: youtube.com/watch?v=2fVlYP0uN04
►SUBSCRIBE!: youtube.com/user/GoldJacketLuke?sub_confirmation=1
→Website: GoldJacketLuke.com (sign up for my emails!)
→Like on Facebook: facebook.com/LukeEilers
(I frequently share lots of random and personal thoughts, insightful quotes, awesome videos from other people, cool articles, etc. on FB)
→Follow on Twitter: twitter.com/EilersLuke
Regarding all the messages I have ever given, I ask you guys to take nothing on my word, but to test the principles and the methods for yourselves and to always think critically. Everyone has their own individualization process. You may be an "outlier". Also, there appears to be a yin and a yang for everything (except God maybe?) that go together. Maybe you'll find some concept that will work awesome for you now, and then in the future you'll find that the polar opposite of that concept is what feels true for you! What matters is are you afraid of truth? Are you being real? Are your actions hurting others? And are you coming from a truly good place?
Graphic By: ChrisLegend (He shares his insights on life) - youtube.com/channel/UCZkYiXL629pc0zIu-Qy0tIQ
►I hope you enjoyed / benefited from the video!
I'd appreciate it if you: LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, SUBSCRIBE, & check out my other videos! :)
