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The gap between what you want and where you are isn't bad luck. It's a belief you made as a kid.
David Bayer, author of A Changed Mind, calls it the Golden Equation: desire plus non-resistance equals your result. The block isn't the wanting. It's the meaning you attach to not having it yet.
Somewhere between 40 and 60, the exact strategy that made you successful starts to suffocate you. Bayer calls it the Core Program, the compensation you built around a childhood wound that's finally asking to be healed.
He spent years numbing himself with drugs, alcohol, sex and pornography before hitting bottom at 33. What got him sober wasn't willpower. It was learning to stop fighting his own thoughts.
You don't need more hustle. You need less resistance. This conversation shows you exactly where yours is hiding.
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00:00 Intro
01:16 3 Steps to Abundance
03:56 The Core Childhood Trauma
07:35 Wound Into Superpower
13:36 Success Won't Cure Insecurities
15:31 The Manifesting Formula
22:25 Primal vs. Powerful States
34:44 The Hustle Culture Myth
38:21 The Midlife Core Program
43:08 Finding a Higher Power
51:58 Root Cause of Addiction
56:24 Finding Your True Purpose
1:08:02 Overcoming Time Scarcity
1:11:15 The Decision Matrix
1:13:35 David's Three Truths
#greatness #inspiration #motivation
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The gap between what you want and where you are isn't bad luck. It's a belief you made as a kid.
David Bayer, author of A Changed Mind, calls it the Golden Equation: desire plus non-resistance equals your result. The block isn't the wanting. It's the meaning you attach to not having it yet.
Somewhere between 40 and 60, the exact strategy that made you successful starts to suffocate you. Bayer calls it the Core Program, the compensation you built around a childhood wound that's finally asking to be healed.
He spent years numbing himself with drugs, alcohol, sex and pornography before hitting bottom at 33. What got him sober wasn't willpower. It was learning to stop fighting his own thoughts.
You don't need more hustle. You need less resistance. This conversation shows you exactly where yours is hiding.
David on Instagram instagram.com/davidbayer33
David on YouTube @DavidBayer33
Take The Limiting Belief Assessment! wholehuman.com/greatness
Listen to this episode on the go!
🍎 Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-school-of-greatness/id596047499
🟢 Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/07GQhOZboEZOE1ysnFLipT?si=a03d916bade54d4f
For more info about this episode, go to lewishowes.com/1954
💰 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "Make Money Easy" today!lewishowes.com/moneyyou
📙 get my NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING book "The Greatness Mindset" today! lewishowes.com/gmyo
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📲 For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960
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Greatness Clips: youtube.com/@GreatnessClips
Spanish: youtube.com/@LewisHowesEspañol
Portuguese: youtube.com/@LewisHowesPortugues
Lewis Howes Shorts: youtube.com/@lewishowesshorts
00:00 Intro
01:16 3 Steps to Abundance
03:56 The Core Childhood Trauma
07:35 Wound Into Superpower
13:36 Success Won't Cure Insecurities
15:31 The Manifesting Formula
22:25 Primal vs. Powerful States
34:44 The Hustle Culture Myth
38:21 The Midlife Core Program
43:08 Finding a Higher Power
51:58 Root Cause of Addiction
56:24 Finding Your True Purpose
1:08:02 Overcoming Time Scarcity
1:11:15 The Decision Matrix
1:13:35 David's Three Truths
#greatness #inspiration #motivation
