Uploaded November 2021 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

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We’ve all had conversations that feel forced, awkward, or just boring. Sometimes it gets to the point where you have no idea what to say.

While it’s funny on TV, in real life, these conversations are painful.

So in this video, we’ll go over five common mistakes that lead to boring conversations, and what to do so you can have amazing conversations instead.

We'll do this using clips from some of the best conversationalists that we've covered on the channel so far.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:42 - Mistake #1: Energy ducking
3:00 - Mistake #2: Assuming interest
4:28 - Mistake #3: Giving bland one to five words answers
6:24 - Mistake #4: Asking the same boring default questions
8:51 - Mistake #5: Being a passive listener


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