Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago

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0Modern friendship for women is collapsing and it’s affecting our nervous systems and overall health.

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Heather is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Boulder, Colorado, where she specializes in the delicate work of healing relationships. Beyond her private practice, she’s a community builder and experienced women’s group facilitator, leading retreats and mindfulness-based gatherings. Many of you may also know her as the voice behind The Slow Weekender, where she writes about slowing down and living with intention. After years of hearing women share their quiet ache for deeper friendship, Heather created The Invitation—a year-long program designed to guide women into meaningful, intentional connection.

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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
01:47 What led Heather to study friendship
08:35 Pre-modern villages vs. modern fractured social life
13:17 Robin Dunbar's research on how many people we can actually hold close
19:01 Why intimacy feels harder than it used to
23:17 When modern loneliness actually began
44:03 The three pillars of meaningful friendship
1:03:49 How many hours it really takes to build a close friendship
1:19:37 The Harvard study: what predicts how long and well we live
1:38:08 A closing question to sit with this week
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Heather's Links:
👉heatherjcarlson.com/the-invitation

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