Uploaded September 2025 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
After six years, I visited my dad in China—and healed emotional wounds I’ve carried my entire life. This is the most personal story I’ve ever shared: a journey of healing my father wound, breaking through years of emotional distance and lack of communication, and finding peace, clarity, and inner power through authenticity.
In this video, I share my family backstory on growing up with a distant father, the silent struggles I held for decades, and the life-changing experience of finally expressing my truth. If you’re navigating family wounds, generational healing, or your own path to self worth, I hope this story brings you reflection, healing, and hope. Sending you so much love 💓
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✧ How to Heal Your Emotional Trauma & Past Wounds - Healing Workshop | youtu.be/9Ml86PhDYoY?si=vFBc2vGpgTLU7Hwy
✧ My Holistic Healing Journey | youtu.be/kK256nzze8A?si=v7lyq8FtQkuoPjm9
✧ Story of My 20s: How I Created My Dream Life | youtu.be/9M0Dn-PHgbE?si=ZNc9HCqvYO5oYvD0
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✧ Bali Vlog 2: Lessons from Bali: Healing, Self Worth, Living a Full Life ✨ | youtu.be/QHhc55j9VDI?si=KzeZn5nMa47gQdrm
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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
Lavendaire is a resource for personal growth & lifestyle design. Follow along and learn how you can create a beautiful and meaningful life.
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After six years, I visited my dad in China—and healed emotional wounds I’ve carried my entire life. This is the most personal story I’ve ever shared: a journey of healing my father wound, breaking through years of emotional distance and lack of communication, and finding peace, clarity, and inner power through authenticity.
In this video, I share my family backstory on growing up with a distant father, the silent struggles I held for decades, and the life-changing experience of finally expressing my truth. If you’re navigating family wounds, generational healing, or your own path to self worth, I hope this story brings you reflection, healing, and hope. Sending you so much love 💓
// watch more
✧ Self Love Journey: How I Healed My Self Worth 💖 | youtu.be/027FKSaQWMc?si=2ZAto_YP-JK6grSO
✧ How to Heal Your Emotional Trauma & Past Wounds - Healing Workshop | youtu.be/9Ml86PhDYoY?si=vFBc2vGpgTLU7Hwy
✧ My Holistic Healing Journey | youtu.be/kK256nzze8A?si=v7lyq8FtQkuoPjm9
✧ Story of My 20s: How I Created My Dream Life | youtu.be/9M0Dn-PHgbE?si=ZNc9HCqvYO5oYvD0
// mentioned
✧ hair story podcast episode (2016) | lavendaire.com/ll-009-true-dont-get-attached-identity
✧ Bali Vlog 1: Synchronicities & Revelations | youtu.be/eNazv72X4ZA?si=MQ0FeObcasqeNemJ
✧ Bali Vlog 2: Lessons from Bali: Healing, Self Worth, Living a Full Life ✨ | youtu.be/QHhc55j9VDI?si=KzeZn5nMa47gQdrm
📸 Instagram | instagram.com/lavendaire
___________________________
💝 Shop | shop.lavendaire.com
🌻 Website | lavendaire.com
💛 Podcast: The Lavendaire Lifestyle | lavendaire.com/llpodcast
◦ instagram | instagram.com/lavendaire
◦ tiktok | tiktok.com/@lavendaire
◦ twitter | twitter.com/lavendaire
◦ facebook | facebook.com/lavendaire
◦ pinterest | pinterest.com/lavendaire
___________________________
// RESOURCES
💫 Free resources & downloads | lavendaire.com/resources
💌 Join our email list for weekly inspiration | lavendaire.com/mail
🌼 Join our Community on Discord | lavendaire.com/discord
💻 Create Your Dream Life Course | lavendaire.com/course
___________________________
Music by Epidemic Sound - bit.ly/2IBCok1
Business inquiries | lavendaire@select.co
___________________________
// ABOUT
I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
Lavendaire is a resource for personal growth & lifestyle design. Follow along and learn how you can create a beautiful and meaningful life.
Subscribe to Lavendaire to get inspired by new videos weekly! bit.ly/sublavendaire
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Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored video. All opinions expressed are wholly my own.
