Uploaded September 2025 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
*Diary #10 •* Sometimes life gives us mirrors—through people, places, and moments—to show us who we’ve been, who we are, and who we’re becoming. This past week, I found myself healing my inner child through playful connection, and catching a glimpse of my future self through real-life examples of love, motherhood, and abundance.
In this vlog, I share reflections on experiencing life across generations, softening into compassion for my past, and expanding my vision for the future. From newfound empathy for my mom to inspiration from couples living out their dreams, this journey reminded me that *seeing is believing*—and the more you see your dreams in others, the more you believe they’re possible for you.
“Life is always offering you a new perspective—if you choose to see it.”
*Diary of Becoming* is a series that pairs a weekly vlog with a reflective journal entry about life, illustrating this continuous process of *becoming*.
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✧ How to Embrace Uncertainty & Trust the Process | youtu.be/GR2HhMcvqFE?si=5pQvc-TEh8h3phkD
✧ Healing My Father Wound 💔 Visiting China After 6 Years | youtu.be/dDaZ7gacJw4?si=iUSsf8OogU4dR0Nv
✧ How to Create Lasting Change in Your Life | youtu.be/KGk-NSM4j-I?si=aoOaDD55lSht_GQB
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// ABOUT
I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
Lavendaire is a resource for personal growth & lifestyle design. Follow along and learn how you can create a beautiful and meaningful life.
Subscribe to Lavendaire to get inspired by new videos weekly! bit.ly/sublavendaire
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Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored video. All opinions expressed are wholly my own.
*Diary #10 •* Sometimes life gives us mirrors—through people, places, and moments—to show us who we’ve been, who we are, and who we’re becoming. This past week, I found myself healing my inner child through playful connection, and catching a glimpse of my future self through real-life examples of love, motherhood, and abundance.
In this vlog, I share reflections on experiencing life across generations, softening into compassion for my past, and expanding my vision for the future. From newfound empathy for my mom to inspiration from couples living out their dreams, this journey reminded me that *seeing is believing*—and the more you see your dreams in others, the more you believe they’re possible for you.
“Life is always offering you a new perspective—if you choose to see it.”
*Diary of Becoming* is a series that pairs a weekly vlog with a reflective journal entry about life, illustrating this continuous process of *becoming*.
// watch more
✧ How to Embrace Uncertainty & Trust the Process | youtu.be/GR2HhMcvqFE?si=5pQvc-TEh8h3phkD
✧ Healing My Father Wound 💔 Visiting China After 6 Years | youtu.be/dDaZ7gacJw4?si=iUSsf8OogU4dR0Nv
✧ How to Create Lasting Change in Your Life | youtu.be/KGk-NSM4j-I?si=aoOaDD55lSht_GQB
📸 Instagram | instagram.com/lavendaire
___________________________
💝 Shop | shop.lavendaire.com
🌻 Website | lavendaire.com
💛 Podcast: The Lavendaire Lifestyle | lavendaire.com/llpodcast
◦ instagram | instagram.com/lavendaire
◦ tiktok | tiktok.com/@lavendaire
◦ twitter | twitter.com/lavendaire
◦ facebook | facebook.com/lavendaire
◦ pinterest | pinterest.com/lavendaire
___________________________
// RESOURCES
💫 Free resources & downloads | lavendaire.com/resources
💌 Join our email list for weekly inspiration | lavendaire.com/mail
🌼 Join our Community on Discord | lavendaire.com/discord
💻 Create Your Dream Life Course | lavendaire.com/course
___________________________
Music by Epidemic Sound - bit.ly/2IBCok1 (30 day free trial)
Business inquiries | lavendaire@select.co
___________________________
// ABOUT
I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.
Lavendaire is a resource for personal growth & lifestyle design. Follow along and learn how you can create a beautiful and meaningful life.
Subscribe to Lavendaire to get inspired by new videos weekly! bit.ly/sublavendaire
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Disclaimer: This is NOT a sponsored video. All opinions expressed are wholly my own.
