He Was Right Outside the Whole Time @harvardlawyerlee
He Was Right Outside the Whole Time  @harvardlawyerlee
Uploaded November 2025 | Updated September 2026, 5 hours ago
When 33-year-old Caitlin Spence called 911, she said she had just found her boyfriend, Kirby Carpenter, outside their home — after two days of not hearing from him.

That discovery launched an investigation that quickly spiraled far beyond a missing-person call.

Within weeks, Kirby’s girlfriend Caitlin, and her parents Jeff and Karen Spence, were all charged in connection with the case.
But when the case reached trial, only one person actually faced a jury:

Jeffrey Spence.

In this video, I break down:

The timeline leading up to Kirby’s discovery

Why investigators focused on the Spence family

Caitlin’s testimony against her own father

The plea deals offered to Caitlin and Karen

And the surprise result from the deadlocked jury — 6 to 6.

A retrial is already planned, and the stakes could not be higher.

This video contains legal analysis of publicly available testimony and court filings.

All individuals are presumed innocent unless proven guilty in a court of law.

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