Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Do nothing for men until they have earned you!
Are you working harder than him to make the relationship work? It’s time to stop, step back and watch how - and if - he steps up. In this video, MJ Harris explains why over-functioning for a man is the fastest way to lose your power. You are not a project manager, and he is not a renovation project.
Stop auditioning to be liked and start giving him the room to actually show up for you. When you over-function, you rob him of the opportunity to lead and you rob yourself of your Queen Energy. We’re talking about the shift from "How do I make him like me?" to "Is he even worthy of my time?" Learn how to sit back, observe, and let him earn his place in your life.
Stop settling for potential and start standing in your worth. Let's get your life and your standards aligned:
👉 Sign up for Private Coaching with MJ Harris: calendly.com/mjharrisspeaks
Get MJ's New Book: mjharrisspeaks.com/book/get-the-fck-out-your-own-way
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Join MJ's Team (Learn to Sell Insurance): imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in
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Follow MJ Harris
Facebook: facebook.com/MJHarrisSpeaks
Twitter: twitter.com/MJHarrisSpeaks
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Make More Money By Joining MJ’s Insurance Team: imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in
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Relationship and Dating Advice: youtube.com/playlist?v=_0Y5raZbfGM&list=PL2GP17BeNlBjCzQoQDepyIpeb8Ofponwk&playnext =1
Financial Tips: youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2GP17BeNlBidh6QW_pImFkz_LTA7zAAH&playnext=1 Life With MJ: youtube.com/playlist?v=s5GRxjj0IQg&list=PL2GP17BeNlBisvlYkKjhzeEjPtSDo0a9y&playnext=1 Most Popular: youtube.com/playlist?v=GtYW-VU63Rk&list=PL2GP17BeNlBj811sEVvvYcHU2s30__Lh-&playnext=1
About MJ Harris:
Malcolm “MJ” Harris is the best selling author who helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris family of comapnies, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
#MJHarris #FeminineEnergy #QueenEnergy #StopOverfunctioning #RelationshipStandards
Do nothing for men until they have earned you!
Are you working harder than him to make the relationship work? It’s time to stop, step back and watch how - and if - he steps up. In this video, MJ Harris explains why over-functioning for a man is the fastest way to lose your power. You are not a project manager, and he is not a renovation project.
Stop auditioning to be liked and start giving him the room to actually show up for you. When you over-function, you rob him of the opportunity to lead and you rob yourself of your Queen Energy. We’re talking about the shift from "How do I make him like me?" to "Is he even worthy of my time?" Learn how to sit back, observe, and let him earn his place in your life.
Stop settling for potential and start standing in your worth. Let's get your life and your standards aligned:
👉 Sign up for Private Coaching with MJ Harris: calendly.com/mjharrisspeaks
Get MJ's New Book: mjharrisspeaks.com/book/get-the-fck-out-your-own-way
Get Affordable Life Insurance imalilife.com
Join MJ's Team (Learn to Sell Insurance): imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in
Subscribe: bit.ly/3eUvcMz | Website: mjharrisspeaks.com
Watch the newest videos: youtube.com/playlist?v=GtYW-VU63Rk&list=PL2GP17BeNlBgMbRPDVgUoCp7vJzZsOJeq&index=2&playnext=1
Follow MJ Harris
Facebook: facebook.com/MJHarrisSpeaks
Twitter: twitter.com/MJHarrisSpeaks
Instagram: instagram.com/mjharrisspeaks
Make More Money By Joining MJ’s Insurance Team: imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in
Watch more videos!
Relationship and Dating Advice: youtube.com/playlist?v=_0Y5raZbfGM&list=PL2GP17BeNlBjCzQoQDepyIpeb8Ofponwk&playnext =1
Financial Tips: youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2GP17BeNlBidh6QW_pImFkz_LTA7zAAH&playnext=1 Life With MJ: youtube.com/playlist?v=s5GRxjj0IQg&list=PL2GP17BeNlBisvlYkKjhzeEjPtSDo0a9y&playnext=1 Most Popular: youtube.com/playlist?v=GtYW-VU63Rk&list=PL2GP17BeNlBj811sEVvvYcHU2s30__Lh-&playnext=1
About MJ Harris:
Malcolm “MJ” Harris is the best selling author who helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris family of comapnies, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
#MJHarris #FeminineEnergy #QueenEnergy #StopOverfunctioning #RelationshipStandards
